Denise Dalgarn
I am a therapist, a lifelong learner, and someone who has always been deeply interested in the stories that shape who we become. I am drawn to the places where people’s experiences, relationships, struggles, strengths, and hopes intersect. I believe there is much more to a person than a diagnosis, a difficult chapter, or the ways they have learned to survive. After more than twenty years in the counseling field, I continue to feel honored by the trust people place in me when they share parts of their lives that may have remained hidden for years. I bring compassion, curiosity, authenticity, and a willingness to sit with people in difficult places without judgment. I believe healing begins when we no longer have to face those places alone.
My approach to mental health is client-centered and integrative using whatever modality seems to best fit what the client is hoping to accomplish.
My work has become deeply rooted in understanding trauma, Complex PTSD, dissociation, and the remarkable ways the mind and body protect us. I am particularly interested in helping people understand themselves with greater compassion rather than shame. I believe many behaviors and symptoms that once helped us survive can eventually become obstacles to the life we want to live. Understanding their purpose can create the possibility for change. I am also someone who values connection—to people, nature, the ocean, and the quiet places where we can pause and find our bearings. My love of the sea has influenced both my personal life and the way I think about therapy. Like a sailboat navigating changing waters, we cannot always control the winds or waves, but we can learn to adjust our sails. At the heart of who I am is a simple belief: people are capable of healing, growth, and meaningful change. Sometimes they simply need someone willing to believe in that possibility with them until they can believe it for themselves.
First session
During our first session, we will spend our time getting to know each other. As a clincian, I know client's usually make the most progress when they are working with someone that they trust and feel comfortable with. I look forward to understanding your concerns, values, and goals as we are working together.
Strengths
One of my greatest strengths as a therapist is my ability to create a space where people feel safe enough to be honest, vulnerable, and fully themselves. I bring warmth, compassion, patience, and genuine curiosity to the therapeutic relationship. I listen not only to what clients say, but also to what may be difficult for them to express. I bring more than twenty years of experience working with trauma and complex clinical presentations. This experience has taught me to look beyond symptoms and diagnoses and to recognize the protective purpose behind behaviors, emotions, and adaptations. I approach clients with the belief that their responses often make sense when understood within the context of what they have experienced. I bring particular strengths in working with Complex PTSD and Dissociative Identity Disorder. I am comfortable working with dissociation, parts, internal communication, and the complex relationships that can exist within a system. I understand the importance of moving at a pace that respects safety, readiness, and the client’s internal experience rather than forcing change before someone is ready. I also bring flexibility and creativity to therapy. I draw from multiple trauma-informed approaches and adapt interventions to the individual rather than expecting the individual to fit a particular treatment model. Most importantly, I bring a willingness to sit beside people in difficult places without judgment or fear. I believe healing happens through relationship, safety, trust, and compassion. I see my role not as “fixing” people, but as helping them discover the strengths, resources, and wisdom they already possess—and supporting them as they learn to use those strengths in new ways.
Ideal clients
Military families, Adoption triad, law enforcement, males, females I have spent years working within the military mental health system focusing on suicide risk reduction and using short-term solution focused therapy for common mental health challenges. Additionally, my practice has included working with developmental trauma, working with foster and adoptive parents in dealing with the challenges that are unique to that system. Other experience includes working with attachment issues, ongoing, severe trauma (lifelong abuse/trafficking) and dissociative identity disorder. Domestic violence is another area of specialty, working with both victims and offenders to reduce risk in the home.
Treatment methods
Integrative
My approach to mental health is client-centered and integrative using whatever modality seems to best fit what the client is hoping to accomplish. Some of the options we might include in our work are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, trauma-focused CBT, attachment-focused, emotionally focused, internal family systems, guided imagery, inner child, and somatic work can all be effective. They are tools that can be used and can be changed or adjusted as needed. I am a Christian and when the client desires, that can be included in our sessions together.
Trauma Informed Care
Trauma informed care is a way of respecting the client's personal journey, listening to and validating their experiences and working together to address the issues that the client is hoping to manage.
EMDR
With extensive training in the modality, it is effective with many diagnoses including Trauma/Chronic Trauma, PTSD/ DID and anxiety among others.
Location
Virtual sessions
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Licensed in
- CaliforniaLicense 49356
- KansasLicense LCMFT 03268
- TexasLicense 204580