(he/him)
I believe your story matters — the hard parts and the hopeful parts — and I use a compassionate, thoughtful, and often humorous approach to help you process the past, understand yourself, and move toward real change. Whether you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed, we’ll work together to find clarity and progress. I've got over 20 years of experience working with people in a variety of settings; together you and I can figure out whatever is hurting or holding you back.
Our first session is all about starting a conversation. It’ll be a casual, warm, and collaborative experience — not a formal interrogation. I want to get to know you: what’s going on in your life, what brought you to therapy now, and what you hope to get out of this process. You can share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with; there's no pressure to “have it all figured out.” We’ll talk about what’s been hard, what you want to feel differently, and what’s been getting in the way. I’ll ask some questions to better understand your history, relationships, and goals, and I’ll share my initial thoughts on how I think we can work together. This is also your chance to get a feel for me — my style, my energy, and whether you think this could be a good fit. Therapy is a two-way relationship, and it’s important that you feel safe, heard, and supported. If it’s not quite the right match, that’s okay — I’ll help guide you toward other options. But most of the time, we’ll wrap up our first meeting with a sense of hope and clarity about where we’re headed.
My greatest strengths as a provider lie in my ability to create a space that feels safe, supportive, and real. I bring a mix of deep empathy, clinical insight, and authentic presence to every session — along with a sense of humor that helps disarm fear and tension. One of the best compliments I’ve ever received from a client was that, although she had never considered seeing a male therapist before, she instantly felt safe the minute I greeted her in the lobby. That moment meant a lot to me, because safety and connection are the foundation of good therapy. Clients often tell me they feel truly seen and understood, even when sharing things they’ve never voiced before. I’m skilled at helping people make meaningful connections between their past and present, uncovering patterns, and identifying practical, realistic ways to move forward. Therapy with me is collaborative, thoughtful, sometimes challenging, and always grounded in deep respect for your unique story.
I’m best positioned to serve adults who are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down by anxiety, depression, trauma, or life transitions. Many of my clients are high-functioning on the outside but struggling internally to make sense of their emotions or experiences. They appreciate a therapist who is empathetic and insightful but also direct and down-to-earth — someone who can balance hard conversations with a touch of humor. Whether you're processing deep wounds or just trying to figure out what’s next, I create a space where you can be honest, challenged, and supported.
I operate from a relational-cultural perspective, which means I believe healing happens through authentic, meaningful connection. In our work together, I aim to create a space where supported vulnerability is not just allowed — it’s encouraged. We both bring our full selves into the room (or screen), and that mutual presence becomes a key part of the change process. This approach isn’t about making therapy about me, but it does mean you’ll likely know more about who I am than you might with more traditional or distant styles. I’m real with my clients — because modeling openness, trust, and humanity helps you feel safe to do the same. It’s an intentional, respectful dance of connection that fosters emotional growth and resilience.
Most experienced therapists draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques, and I’m no exception. CBT helps us explore how your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and physical sensations are all interconnected. Together, we’ll look at the stories you tell yourself — especially the automatic thoughts or beliefs that might be shaping your emotions or keeping you stuck. By identifying patterns and challenging unhelpful thinking, we can create space for more balanced, empowering perspectives. I use CBT tools in a flexible, collaborative way — not as a rigid checklist, but as a practical framework for insight and change.
I take an integrative approach to therapy, which means I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all model. With over 21 years of experience, I’ve learned how to draw from a variety of methods — including relational, cognitive-behavioral, narrative, and mindfulness-based techniques — to tailor the work to you and your specific goals. I’ve also written a book called Soul Audit: A Not-So-Perfect, Broadly Spiritual (Or Not) Guide to Aligning Your Life, which offers a collection of tools and reflections that we may incorporate into our sessions. Whether you're seeking deep healing, practical solutions, or personal alignment, we’ll find a path forward together that fits where you are and where you want to go.
Understanding your story — and helping you rewrite it — is one of the great joys of my practice. A trauma-informed approach means I recognize the impact that past experiences can have on your nervous system, self-image, and relationships. It also means I prioritize emotional safety, choice, and collaboration every step of the way. We’ll move at a pace that feels manageable for you, with tools to help you stay grounded as we explore difficult memories or patterns. Whether you’ve experienced a single event or complex trauma over time, my goal is to help you reconnect with your sense of agency, rebuild trust in yourself, and create a new narrative rooted in strength and resilience.
I believe stories matter — especially the ones we tell ourselves about who we are. Narrative therapy is rooted in the idea that you are not your problems; you are the storyteller. Together, we’ll explore the dominant narratives in your life, identify where they came from, and consider whether they still serve you. We’ll look for alternative stories that highlight your strength, resilience, and values — and we may use creative or innovative tools (if you're open to them!) to help bring those new narratives to life. My goal is to help you feel more empowered and intentional about the life you're writing from here forward.