Evan D Kotler

LCSW, 9 years of experience

Solution oriented
Warm
Virtual
Next available on

About me

Evan is a highly skilled psychotherapist who provides the healing space for Individuals and Couples to elevate their relationships. He's an expert at assessing the patterns of relationships and helping his clients experience the communication they deserve. He also specializes in treating Sex & Porn addiction, navigating infidelity & betrayal, and addressing sexual concerns. Evan is a both a psychotherapist as well as a masters level educator who is trained and experienced as a personal therapist, couple and family therapist, as well as group therapist.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

During our first therapy session together, you can expect a warm non-judgmental space where we'll focus on establishing trust and beginning our collaborative relationship. I provide a thorough intake assessment process to assess what's being experienced. I will explain the process of therapy and outline a treatment plan that will deliver the results you're seeking.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I am an expert at uncovering and discovering complex systems and patterns. Our sessions together will be tailored to your specific needs and will contain a dynamic clinical approach that encompasses the most effective therapeutic strategies to date.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I am well suited to work with adult clients of all ages, genders and relationship dynamics. My clients are high functioning, busy, successful and ambitious individuals. I am the expert that they invite into their lives to overhaul their relationships by implementing skills that lead to validation, deeper intimacy and sustained recovery from ineffective behaviors. * I am well suited to work with monogamous & ethically open couples and all orientations. * I treat Sex & Porn addiction as well as other process and substance addictions. * I treat anxiety, depression, anger and stress. * I assist both partners who have been betrayed and their partners. * I provide family therapy. * I work with adolescents on a case by case basis. * I provide virtual sessions in multiple states and in person sessions in Boca Raton, FL

Specialties

Top specialties

AnxietySex Addiction

Other specialties

AddictionAnger ManagementDepressionSelf EsteemSex TherapySpirituality

I identify as

Man

Serves ages

Teenagers (13 to 17)

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

We all have some negative core beliefs about ourselves, others and the world. Through cognitive therapy, I work collaboratively with my clients to identify and challenge negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to their distress. My approach is goal-oriented, practical, and evidence-based, focusing on developing effective coping skills and strategies to manage symptoms and improve overall well-being.

Mindfulness-Based Therapy

Awareness proceeds skillful actions. I am dedicated to helping individuals cultivate present-moment awareness and develop skills to manage stress, anxiety, and other emotional challenges. In my practice, I integrate mindfulness practices such as meditation, breathing exercises, and body awareness to help clients increase self-awareness, regulate emotions, and enhance overall well-being.

Dialectical Behavior (DBT)

Communication is the key element of all our relationships. Learning interpersonal effectiveness skills helps us achieve our wants without triggering defensiveness in others.

Couples Counseling

There are few things more important than the quality of our relationships. My expertise is in assessing what is happening in a relationship, why it is happening and guiding you along the process of what can be done to achieve the relationship you want. I will teach you how to put down the relationship scorecard. You'll learn how to talk WITH each other rather than at each other.

Location

Virtual
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