Nicole Tholmer

LPC (she/her)14 years of experienceNext available
4.9 (58)
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Welcome, I’m Nicole. On the surface, your life may appear put together, yet inside you still feel stuck and unseen. I help adults uncover and heal the hidden impact of past trauma, break free from painful cycles, and build healthier, more meaningful connections.

My strength is helping clients uncover the link between past experiences and present struggles in a way that feels both validating and transformative.

My goal is lasting change, helping you move from coping to thriving with peace, resilience, and confidence.

First session

In our first session, I’ll create a safe, supportive space where you feel heard. We’ll clarify what brings you to therapy, explore your goals, and identify patterns that may be holding you back. You set the pace. By the end, you’ll have clarity, direction, and a plan for moving forward with confidence.

Strengths

My strength is helping clients uncover the link between past experiences and present struggles in a way that feels both validating and transformative. I combine empathy with practical tools so you leave each session feeling understood and equipped to take action. I specialize in working with motivated adults who are tired of “just coping” and want lasting change. Clients value my ability to see beneath the surface, reflect their strengths, and guide them as they break free from old patterns, set boundaries, and build resilience. Together, we create a path toward peace, confidence, and a stronger sense of self.

Ideal clients

You’ve accomplished a lot in your life, but beneath the surface, you feel blocked. Despite your success at work, you may find yourself exhausted, disconnected, or frustrated that your relationships or personal goals aren’t where you want them to be. Often, the hidden root of these struggles is unresolved childhood trauma or adversity. You may notice yourself repeating patterns you wish you could break or carrying an invisible weight that prevents you from moving forward. My ideal client is motivated, values growth, and is ready to confront these challenges head-on. They want more than quick fixes — they want tools, understanding, and transformation. Together, we’ll explore how the past has shaped your present, develop practical coping strategies, and create a clear path toward resilience, healing, and fulfillment in every area of life.

Treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

In my practice, I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help you understand and change how your thoughts affect your feelings and actions. We'll work together to identify and shift patterns of thinking, equipping you with practical skills for tackling issues like anxiety, depression, and stress. Our goal is to empower you with strategies for lasting change, making our sessions a proactive space for growth.

Location

Virtual sessions

Reviews and ratings

4.9 rating (58)5 reviews
February 12, 2026

Nicole is warm, welcoming, goal oriented and easy to open up to. I look forward to our sessions.

Verified client, age 45-54Review shared after session 1 with Nicole
October 25, 2025

I appreciate Nicole's attentive listening skills ; as well howshe allows me to "talk out so that I can hear myself think"! She has guided me to my first break through and path to healing.

Verified client, age 55-64Review shared after session 6 with Nicole
October 9, 2025

She makes me feel comfortable enough to be truly open. I feel like I can let my honest feelings out and not be judged for it.

Verified client, age 35-44Review shared after session 5 with Nicole

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Schedule 60 min