Heather Lemke, LCPC - Therapist at Grow Therapy

Heather Lemke

Heather Lemke

(she/her)

LCPC
16 years of experience
Virtual

Hi, I'm Heather! I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) and I have been working in the field of mental health since graduating with my Master's in 2009. I have worked as a crisis intervention counselor with teens, and, more recently, I have been working in private practice with teens and adults from various backgrounds since 2017. I earned my Bachelor's degree in Psychology from the University of Missouri - Columbia (a.k.a. Mizzou - Go Tigers!). After graduating, I then earned my Master's degree in Clinical Counseling from Concordia University - Chicago. From there, I started working with people to help them make the changes needed to improve their lives - and I have never looked back! I truly enjoy what I get to do each day for a living and would feel privileged and honored to have the opportunity to work with you to improve your mental and emotional wellness! Whether seeking therapy for the first time or continuing your journey towards improved mental health, I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space to support you as you work on your personal goals. MY goal is to cater your therapy experience to what you need, focusing on where you are at in your life and where you ultimately want to be. Using an eclectic blend of treatment methods (including CBT and person-centered among others), I focus on compassionate and empathic care designed with your needs in mind. Whether wanting to develop coping strategies for mental health concerns like depression and anxiety, to learn how to manage stress well, or to forge a deeper understanding of how and why life's experiences impact day-to-day functioning, my hope is to collaborate with you every step of the way to reach whatever goal(s) you may have.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

During your first therapy session, my goal is just to get to know you but to also keep it simple. We will likely talk through how therapy works (especially if you have never participated in therapy before) and what confidentiality means for the therapeutic relationship. We will talk about your reasons for starting therapy, discuss your expectations for your therapy experience, and talk through when and how often you would like to have sessions. Many people often think that starting therapy is jumping in both feet first and hitting on the toughest or most emotional topics straight away. But you don't have to. Therapy is building a relationship and it takes time. That said, the first session (or any session with me for that matter) is a no-pressure zone. I am happy to move at your pace and comfort level with sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

Supportive, compassionate, empathic, and attentive: That is what you get when working with me! Therapy is not always easy - that fact is never lost on me. So, to honor the bravery it often takes to trust another person with thoughts, feelings, emotions, and retelling of experiences, I strive to create a safe and comfortable space that is free of judgement. Furthermore, YOUR own insights and feedback matter and are welcome just as much during the therapeutic process, as it can assist in determining a new focus or new goals to work on. Lastly, and depending on your own therapy goals, it is not uncommon for me to assign homework for in between sessions so that skills and processing can take place outside of therapy sessions in order to enhance the therapeutic process.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

Let's face it, life is hard and can be full of challenges. Compound regular life stressors with anxiety, depression, parenting struggles, marital strife, work stress, problems with friends and/or family members, caregiver burnout, and other such issues, and it can feel downright overwhelming. That's where I come in! Given that I aim to make the therapy experience personalized, I have a great deal of experience working with people of all ages and from all walks of life. Are you a parent of a teen who is unsure of how to navigate this ever-evolving period in your child's life? OR are you searching for a therapist for your teen who will work to forge a healthy and supportive relationship with your child so that they can make healthier choices and work on reaching their own goals? Are you single, dating, married, or divorced and wanting to process and figure out how cope with and chart this point in your life? Is anxiety, depression, trauma, or other such mental health concerns taking up too much space in your life and making you want the skills needed to live life as you wish - to have a life where these concerns are more manageable? If given the opportunity to work with you (and/or you and your family), we can establish a plan of care that can yield the results that you are hoping to achieve!

About Heather Lemke

I identify as

Specialties

ADHDAnxietyChild or AdolescentDepressionSelf Esteem

Serves ages

Teenagers (13 to 17)

Licensed in

Appointments

Virtual

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

With Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), I aim to help clients of all ages identify the problematic patterns of thinking that not only impact mood in a negative way, but also behaviors that can affect functioning. Whether through reframing thought processes, implementing self care activities, determining needed problem solving skills, or practicing how to live more in the present, CBT is useful in coping with and managing a wide range of mental health concerns.

Trauma Informed Care

Trauma is something that can impact not just how a person thinks or feels, it can also influence a person's physical health, ability to live life and connect with others, and capacity to reach personal goals - no matter how big or small they may be. Because of these facts, I strive to make the therapy experience safe, non-judgmental, and geared towards meeting clients where they are at in their lives. Operating with an empathic, compassionate, and patient mindset, I conduct sessions with an awareness that trauma can be impactful in a very personalized way and I aim to make each client I collaborate with feel as comfortable as possible as they work to improve the quality of their life.

Person-centered (Rogerian)

I firmly believe that therapy is most effective when it is compassionate, empathic, and free of judgement. In using a person-centered approach, I work to create a safe and trusted space for individuals, couples, and families to talk through feelings, thoughts, and experiences so that meaningful insights can be gained and ultimately applied in an authentic way.

Psychoeducation

Psychoeducation is an important part of the therapy experience! I aim to dispel misconceptions about mental health concerns, talk through how symptoms of mental disorders or unmanaged stress can impact a person's mind and body, and offer hope for managing mental health concerns more effectively. I also aim to consider all aspects of a person's life to ensure conversations about mental health include a person's life experience. For example, anxiety and/or depression can affect a person in different ways if they are also struggling with trauma or a chronic illness. Other stressors - like those that come with being a parent or caregiver - can also be impacted in different ways when mental health concerns are present. That said, I strive to give clients the necessary information they need to better understand themselves in a more meaningful and complete way.

Eclectic

Having a flexible and eclectic approach to providing therapy is necessary to forge meaningful therapeutic relationships and help clients reach their goals. Since starting my career in 2009, I have used this type approach to treat and support clients by utilizing a blend of methods from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Adlerian Therapy, Supportive Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and Strength-Based Therapy, to name a few. I also keep in mind the mind-body connection (the way in which mental health effects physical health and vice versa) when it comes to treating mental health concerns, so as to provide well-rounded care to those seeking individual, couples, or family therapy.