Ariel Spindell

LMFT, 20 years of experience
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Starting therapy can feel like a big step. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply ready for things to feel different, you don’t have to figure it out alone. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience providing trauma-informed, evidence-based care. Licensed in California since 2005, I work with adolescents, adults, and families navigating anxiety or depression, trauma, substance use concerns, relationship challenges, and major life transitions.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Together, we’ll identify your challenges and your goals—where you’d like your life to be in a month, six months, and a year. We’ll talk through options and develop strategies that fit your real life. You can expect to leave sessions with greater clarity and practical “next steps” you can start using right away. Our work is collaborative, with ongoing feedback and shared accountability so therapy continues to feel helpful and relevant to you.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I offer collaborative, trauma-informed therapy that balances compassion with practical, evidence-based care. With over 20 years of experience, I create a steady, supportive space where clients can be honest, feel understood, and begin to make sense of what they’re experiencing. My approach is individualized and flexible, drawing from CBT, DBT, Motivational Interviewing, Trauma-Focused CBT, and family systems therapy to meet each client’s unique needs and pace. Together, we focus on clarifying goals, identifying strengths, and developing realistic strategies that fit your daily life. Clients can expect to leave sessions with greater insight, confidence, and clear next steps for meaningful, lasting change.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I work with individuals and families who are ready to explore what’s not working and want support in creating meaningful change. Many of my clients feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of their next steps and are looking for both understanding and direction.

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My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as a practical, evidence-based approach to help clients understand how their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are connected. In my private practice, I work collaboratively with clients to identify unhelpful thinking patterns, core beliefs, and behavioral cycles that contribute to distress. Together, we develop realistic, actionable strategies to challenge those patterns and replace them with healthier, more adaptive responses. My use of CBT is flexible and individualized rather than rigid or formulaic. I tailor interventions to each client’s goals, cultural background, and lived experience, integrating techniques such as cognitive restructuring, behavioral activation, skills-building, and between-session practice. I emphasize helping clients gain insight while also leaving sessions with concrete tools they can apply in daily life. Over time, this approach supports symptom reduction, improved coping, and increased confidence in managing future challenges independently.

Strength-Based

I use a strengths-based treatment approach that focuses on identifying and building upon each client’s existing abilities, resilience, and resources. Rather than defining clients by symptoms or diagnoses alone, I work to highlight what is already working and leverage those strengths to support meaningful change. This approach helps foster hope, empowerment, and a sense of agency throughout the therapeutic process. In my private practice, I collaborate with clients to uncover personal strengths, coping skills, values, and past successes, and then intentionally integrate those into treatment planning and goal-setting. I support clients in reframing challenges through a more balanced lens while reinforcing their capacity to navigate difficulties effectively. By emphasizing progress, adaptability, and self-efficacy, this approach helps clients build confidence and develop sustainable strategies for growth and long-term well-being.

Motivational Interviewing

I use Motivational Interviewing (MI) as a collaborative, client-centered approach to help individuals explore ambivalence and strengthen their motivation for change. Rather than directing or persuading, I create a supportive, nonjudgmental space where clients can clarify their values, identify discrepancies between where they are and where they want to be, and build internal motivation for meaningful change. In my private practice, I use MI techniques such as open-ended questions, reflective listening, affirmations, and goal-focused conversations to support clients in making changes at their own pace. This approach is especially helpful when clients feel stuck, uncertain, or conflicted about next steps. By honoring autonomy and reinforcing self-efficacy, Motivational Interviewing helps clients feel empowered to make decisions that align with their goals and sustain progress over time.

Solution Focused Brief Treatment

I use Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) as a goal-oriented, collaborative approach that emphasizes practical solutions rather than prolonged focus on problems. This model centers on helping clients identify what they want to be different, recognize existing strengths and resources, and build small, achievable steps toward meaningful change. In my private practice, I use SFBT techniques such as goal clarification, identifying exceptions, scaling questions, and future-focused conversations to help clients make progress efficiently. This approach is especially effective for clients seeking short-term support, clarity, or momentum during periods of transition or stress. By focusing on what is already working and amplifying successes, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy helps clients build confidence and create sustainable change in a timely, empowering way.

Trauma Informed Care

I practice Trauma-Informed Care by recognizing the widespread impact of trauma and integrating safety, trust, collaboration, and empowerment into all aspects of treatment. Rather than focusing solely on symptoms or diagnoses, I consider how past experiences may influence a client’s emotional responses, coping strategies, and sense of safety. My goal is to create a therapeutic environment where clients feel respected, supported, and in control of their healing process. In my private practice, I apply trauma-informed principles by pacing treatment thoughtfully, prioritizing emotional and physical safety, and honoring each client’s autonomy and boundaries. I work collaboratively with clients to build stabilization skills, increase awareness of triggers, and strengthen resilience before moving into deeper work, when appropriate. This approach helps clients feel grounded and empowered while reducing the risk of re-traumatization and supporting long-term healing.

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