I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC) and certified clinical trauma professional (CCTP) located in Norfolk, Virginia; I am also licensed in Washington state (LMHC). I specialize in and am passionately committed to helping teens and adults learn how to overcome past traumas, work through anxiety, and reclaim their lives. I strive for authenticity, and I believe in being a real person with you so you can feel free to be your true self; you won't get a blank slate therapist with me! I strive to create the safest environment possible in which you can come as you are and release your burdens without being judged or shamed. As a fellow trauma survivor, I know how crucial it is to feel like you can trust the person you're opening up to about your darkest secrets and deepest pains! Moreover, I'm a follower of Jesus Christ and believe in the healing power of a strong relationship with God. I've devoted my life to serving Him through this work with dedication to my fellow human beings, and it is my deepest desire to help you draw closer to God if that is also something you want for yourself. If you've been hurt by religion, I would also be honored to help you process and heal from those wounds.
Our first session will be time for me to get to know you in more depth. We'll talk about your symptoms, past treatment, your support system (or lack thereof), family life, relationships, coping skills, and more. I'll assess you for your levels of depression, anxiety, and PTSD, as well as get an ACE score (ACE stands for Adverse Childhood Events) and assess your levels of dissociation, and level of risk for self-harming. We'll talk about what you want to accomplish in therapy, what to expect, what your needs are, and answer questions you might have.
One of my greatest strengths as a provider is empathy; I've always been very sensitive to others and I have lived the very experiences that I help folks overcome now. As someone who has recovered from complex PTSD, war, and much more, I understand the kind of challenge and the level of excruciating emotional pain that comes from hard lived experiences. Because I understand trauma so deeply and thoroughly--from both a personal and academic perspective--I will not judge you or the ways you've been coping, which are things you might feel deeply embarrassed or ashamed about. I can assure you that you have no reason to be ashamed with me, as there are good reasons you do the things you do. Finally, I am exceptionally passionate about what I do. I don't see being a therapist as a job or career; for me, it's a calling and my life's mission to help people up out of their suffering. I am compelled from deep in my heart to do this work, and to help others climb up out of the same pit I was in. I get you!
I use EMDR for the treatment of PTSD, complex PTSD, and for evicting toxic shame from your mind and life. EMDR helps change pervasive negative and destructive thought patterns and replace them with more adaptive, realistic, and helpful thought patterns.
I incorporate scripture into my counseling sessions with people who are Christian and need this to be a part of their healing journey. Please know that I welcome all people into my office, regardless of your religion or spiritual views, and I am happy to help you, regardless. Christian counseling is something I offer, but it's not the only thing.
I teach DBT skills (mindfulness, emotion regulation, distress tolerance, & interpersonal effectiveness) as a compliment to other methods of regulating the nervous system, dealing with triggers, and coping with difficult thoughts & emotions.
I use CBT as a complimentary therapy to the trauma-focused work I do with clients. CBT isn't for everyone, but it can be helpful to learn how to challenge unhelpful, painful, and destructive ways of thinking and acting toward yourself and in response to life.
Mindfulness is a foundation for all of the work that I do, as it is important in recovering from a multitude of challenges, especially trauma, anxiety, and panic.