Becky Ness

LCSW, 12 years of experience
Rated 4.9 stars out of 515 ratings

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented
VirtualAvailable

I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 12 years of experience, and I specialize in cancer, survivorship, caregiving, and other major life and medical transitions. Much of my work focuses on helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional, relational, and identity-related impacts of illness—including grief, anxiety, fear of recurrence, body image changes, and shifts in intimacy and connection. I also specialize in sexual health and intimacy, supporting individuals and couples who are navigating desire differences, sexual shame, body image concerns, or changes related to illness, stress, aging, or past experiences. These can be difficult topics to talk about, but they are an important part of emotional and relational well-being—and they deserve thoughtful, non-judgmental care. My approach to therapy is collaborative, relational, and tailored to your unique needs. Therapy with me isn’t about fixing you—it’s about helping you better understand what you’re carrying, reconnect with your strengths, and move forward with more clarity, self-compassion, and intention.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Starting therapy can feel both hopeful and nerve-wracking. Our first session is a gentle, low-pressure conversation focused on understanding what brought you in and what you’re hoping for. We’ll explore what’s feeling most challenging right now, any goals, concerns, or questions you have about therapy, relevant personal, relational, or medical experiences, and what support looks like for you at this stage. You don’t need to have everything figured out before coming in. We’ll move at your pace and begin shaping an approach that feels supportive, realistic, and aligned with your needs.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

One of my greatest strengths as a therapist is my ability to sit with complex, emotionally heavy experiences without rushing to fix or minimize them. I specialize in working with clients navigating cancer, caregiving, grief, intimacy concerns, and major life transitions—situations where uncertainty, loss, and identity shifts are often central. I bring a calm, relational presence to sessions and help clients make sense of their experiences in a way that feels validating and empowering. Clients often share that they feel deeply heard, understood, and less alone, even when discussing topics that feel overwhelming or difficult to name. I integrate compassion-focused, attachment-based, and strengths-based approaches to help clients reduce self-criticism, strengthen emotional resilience, and develop healthier relationships—with themselves and with others. My work is collaborative and paced intentionally, allowing space for insight, emotional processing, and meaningful change.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I work with adults and couples who feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck, particularly in the context of illness, loss, or major life changes. I’m especially well-suited to support people navigating cancer, survivorship, or caregiving, including the emotional adjustment, grief, identity changes, and fear of recurrence that often accompany these experiences. I also work with individuals adjusting to medical diagnoses, chronic illness, or significant health changes, as well as those experiencing grief or anticipatory loss. In addition, I support clients struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, emotional numbness, or self-doubt, and those exploring concerns related to intimacy, sexual health, body image, or desire changes. I work with couples facing communication challenges, emotional distance, or intimacy concerns, particularly when stress, illness, or major life transitions are involved. I provide affirming, inclusive care for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples and welcome those exploring non-traditional relationship structures.

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My treatment methods

Compassion Focused

I help clients recognize and soften patterns of self-criticism, shame, and harsh internal dialogue—especially during times of illness, grief, or uncertainty. Together, we work on developing a more compassionate relationship with oneself, which can reduce emotional distress and increase a sense of safety, self-acceptance, and emotional regulation.

Attachment-based

My work is relational and attachment-informed, helping clients understand how early relationships and past experiences influence current patterns in connection, intimacy, communication, and emotional safety. Together, we explore how these patterns show up in relationships today and work toward building more secure, responsive, and satisfying connections with others and with oneself.

Sex Therapy

I provide sex-positive, affirming support for individuals and couples navigating concerns related to intimacy, desire, arousal, body image, and sexual confidence. My approach creates a safe, non-judgmental space to explore sexual concerns—including those impacted by illness, medical treatment, stress, or life transitions—while supporting clients in developing greater comfort, communication, and connection in their sexual and intimate lives.

Strength-Based

I help clients identify and reconnect with their existing strengths, values, and coping abilities—even when those feel out of reach. By highlighting what is already working and building on it intentionally, clients can regain a sense of agency, resilience, and confidence during periods of transition or change.

Grief Therapy

I support clients through grief, anticipatory loss, and life-altering changes with care that honors the complexity of grief. Rather than trying to rush or “fix” the grieving process, therapy focuses on making space for the full range of emotions that accompany loss while helping clients integrate grief into their lives in a way that feels meaningful, compassionate, and sustainable.

Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 15 ratings

3 ratings with written reviews

August 2, 2025

This was my first session and I was nervously rambling. But she just patiently listened. I like that.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Becky

July 12, 2025

Couples therapy brought us here. Becky is exactly what you need for couples therapy. She is able to identify long term solutions. Becky understands the need & makes sure to not make either partner feel at fault while still addressing each persons emotions on matters. I would recommend Becky for couples therapy to anyone in need.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 5 with Becky

April 24, 2025

Becky is very intelligent,knowledgeable & understanding. I can tell she’s going to be amazing.

Verified client, age 65+
Review shared after session 1 with Becky