Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 28 ratings

James Marrelli

LMFT, 14 years of experience

Warm
Solution oriented
Authentic

About me

Hi, my name is James, and I have a passion for working with couples, adults, and older adults who may be navigating challenges in their marriages, careers, retirement, or simply in “finding purpose.” My goal is to help you shape—or re-shape—your life in ways that raise the quality of your day-to-day experience. Since you are reading this, I want you to know that an effective therapist is not only defined by professional training, but also by life experiences, expertise, patience, compassion, and an open mind. Therapy is a partnership, and together we will work toward clear, realistic, and meaningful goals that give you direction and confidence. I believe that growth often begins with the willingness to take the first step, and one of my favorite sayings reflects that truth: “Whatever you believe that you can do; begin it!” – Goethe If you are ready to begin, I would be honored to walk alongside you on your journey.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

My role is first and foremost to listen and to understand what you would like to change in your life. From there, we work together to discover practical ways to help you move away from suffering and toward greater peace and balance. I often suggest books, resources, and homework to give you continuity between sessions, and I welcome emails in between as part of your ongoing support. I use the word Counseling rather than Therapy because I believe that suffering—while painful—can also lead to growth. To me, “therapy” can sometimes imply that something is broken and needs to be fixed. Counseling, on the other hand, reflects the idea of walking alongside another human being for a time, finding new perspectives, and opening pathways for growth in the midst of life’s challenges—whether those challenges involve a struggling relationship, a loss of purpose, health difficulties, or other transitions we all face.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

In terms of experience, I bring to your sessions over 50 years of living life along with its ups and downs. I worked as an Entrepreneur for about half of my career starting up and managing a couple of companies. Then I fell flat on my face and had to re-group and used Counseling/Therapy as a means to re-craft my life and start a new chapter. It worked! Then I started a corporate career where I worked in creating new products and developing new business as well as consulting and even doing some advocacy work in Washington DC. Long story short, I can pull on a lot of life and work experiences to help you along your path while my training as a Therapist has given me the roadmap and structure to meet you wherever you are and get you the support that you need. When I was about 50, I felt burnt out with business and chasing money and felt a growing passion to find a way to be of service to others. Becoming a Therapist gave me new purpose and meaning as well as humility in my life. It is an honor to be allowed in as a witness to your story, your life and your challenges. My education is also varied; a Bachelor’s Degree from Syracuse University a long time ago, then an MBA from Harvard which was pretty cool and scary and then another Master’s degree in Counseling. I am licensed in California as an LMFT #53141

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

When you are feeling depressed, anxious, or overwhelmed by relationship struggles, life transitions, or the weight of panic attacks, ADHD, PTSD, or other debilitating challenges, it can feel as though you are stuck—immobilized, uncertain of what to do, and even disconnected from your own feelings. I hear you. My role is to provide a safe and compassionate space where you can begin to sort through those difficult emotions, rediscover your strengths, and learn practical strategies to help you regain balance. Together, we will slow things down, clarify what you are experiencing, and identify the patterns or beliefs that may be keeping you from moving forward. Therapy with me is not about rushing to a quick fix, but about walking with you at a steady, supportive pace—helping you move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling more capable, connected, and grounded. Ultimately, our work together will help you take those first steps toward something new: a different way of experiencing yourself, your relationships, and your daily life with greater clarity and purpose.

Specialties

Top specialties

AnxietyDepression

Other specialties

ADHDAddictionAnger ManagementSelf Esteem

I identify as

Man

Serves ages

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Life can bring challenges that feel overwhelming—whether it’s the racing thoughts and worry of anxiety, the heaviness and disconnection of depression, or the painful distance and conflict that can grow in relationships. As a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space where you can feel truly heard and begin to explore new ways forward. For individuals, I use evidence-based CBT tools to help you understand unhelpful thought patterns, calm difficult emotions, and build healthier coping strategies. For couples, I guide partners in breaking free from cycles of conflict, improving communication, and restoring trust and connection. My goal is to offer both compassion and practical strategies so you can experience relief from symptoms, strengthen your relationships, and create a more hopeful, balanced, and meaningful life.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

Accepts

Cash - $125 per sessionAetnaAll SaversAnthemAvMedBlue CrossBlue ShieldBlue Shield (MHSA) MagellanCalViva Health (Medi-Cal)Carelon Behavioral Health (Commercial)CignaCommunity Health Plan of Imperial Valley (Medi-Cal)EAP:CignaEAP:EvernorthEAP:UnitedHealthcare/OptumEvernorthGolden RuleHarvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcareHealth Net (Commercial)Health Net (Medi-Cal)Health Plan of San Joaquin - Medi-CalKern Family Health Care - Medi-CalL.A. Care CoveredL.A. Care Covered DirectL.A. Care PASC-SEIUOptumOptumHealth Complex Medical ConditionsOscarOxfordSanta Clara Family Health Plan - Medi-CalScripps Health PlanSharp Health PlanSurest (formerly Bind)Tufts Health/CignaUnited Medical ResourcesUnitedHealthcare Life InsuranceUnitedHealthcare Shared ServicesUnitedHealthcare StudentResourcesUnitedHealthcare/Optum
Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 28 ratings

5 ratings with written reviews

August 12, 2025

What makes James so effective for me is his relatability in juggling a demanding career and home life as husband and father. He makes sure I'm optimizing for the balance I need.

Verified client, age 35-44

Review shared after session 5 with James

July 29, 2025

I was assigned to him. He is very helpful and I enjoyed my session with him look forward to more

Verified client, age 45-54

Review shared after session 1 with James

April 8, 2025

Very Positive, Comfortable, Passionate and Informative... He actually Listened...

Verified client, age 35-44

Review shared after session 1 with James