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Shelby Aronoff

LCSW, 3 years of experience
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Hello, and welcome! My name is Shelby Aronoff, and I am a passionate, non-judgmental therapist who believes that each person deserves a space where they can feel fully heard, understood, and supported. I use a blend of therapeutic approaches tailored to each client’s unique needs, drawing from my training in multiple modalities to create a therapy experience that feels personal, collaborative, and meaningful. My goal is to help clients better understand themselves, work through challenges with compassion, and build the confidence and skills needed to move forward with greater clarity, growth, and self-empowerment.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session, you can expect a slower, intentional pace as we begin getting to know one another and build a foundation of trust. It is important to me that you feel comfortable and seen, so we will take time to talk about what brings you to therapy, what your hopes and goals are, and what you feel you need most right now. I view this first meeting as a collaborative conversation where I explain my therapeutic process, listen carefully, and ask thoughtful questions so that we can make sure the work we do together feels most aligned with your needs. My goal is for you to leave the first session feeling heard, understood, and confident that we are creating a therapy process that feels supportive, safe, and tailored specifically to you.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

What stands out most about my therapeutic approach is my ability to truly see each client as an individual and shape the therapy process around who they are, rather than using a one-size-fits-all method. I see you for you! I place a strong emphasis on understanding each person’s unique life experiences, struggles, strengths, and goals, and I work hard to create a space where clients feel both accepted and gently challenged. One of my greatest strengths as a therapist is my ability to balance warmth and compassion with honesty and directness, helping clients feel supported while also encouraging meaningful growth. Clients often find that working with me allows them to feel deeply understood while also being guided to look at themselves in new ways, build confidence, and move toward a more empowered and authentic version of themselves.

SpecialtiesTop specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Other specialties

Crisis Intervention

Depression

Life Transitions

I identify as

White

Woman

Licensed in

Colorado

Accepts

Arlo

Location
Virtual
My treatment methods

Mindfulness-Based Therapy

In my work as a therapist, I value mindfulness-based therapy as a core part of my clinical approach. I view mindfulness as a powerful tool that helps clients step out of cycles of overthinking, emotional overwhelm, and self-criticism, and return to the present moment where change and regulation are possible. Many of the clients I work with struggle with anxiety, trauma-related responses, rumination, or feeling disconnected from themselves, and mindfulness allows us to slow the process down so they can reconnect with what is happening right now rather than getting pulled into past experiences or future fears. In practice, I use mindfulness to help clients come back into the here and now by guiding their attention toward their breath, body sensations, and immediate environment. When clients are able to connect with their physical experience, their thoughts often become less overwhelming, and they are better able to tolerate emotions without feeling consumed by them.

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

By utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, I am able to help clients more clearly understand their limiting thoughts and beliefs about themselves and guide them towards a more positive mindset and function from a place of self-love and empowerment. Through this approach, I help clients identify automatic thoughts and core beliefs that influence how they interpret situations and respond emotionally. Often, people are not fully aware of how strongly their internal dialogue shapes their mood, confidence, and decision-making. By slowing the process down and examining these thoughts together, clients are able to see how certain beliefs—such as feeling not good enough, fearing failure, or assuming the worst—can keep them stuck in cycles of distress. My role is to help them question these beliefs in a supportive and collaborative way, rather than forcing change, so that they can begin to develop perspectives that feel more accurate and compassionate.

EMDR

I have incorporated EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy as an important part of my clinical approach, particularly when working with clients who feel stuck in painful past experiences, intrusive thoughts, or emotional patterns that do not seem to shift through insight alone. I have found EMDR to be a highly effective modality for helping clients process past traumas, unresolved memories, and deeply rooted beliefs in a way that feels both safe and structured. Many clients come to therapy understanding why they feel the way they do, but still find themselves reacting emotionally as if past experiences are still happening. EMDR allows us to work directly with the nervous system so that these experiences can be reprocessed rather than continually relived. Through EMDR, I help clients identify memories, thoughts, or experiences that continue to hold emotional intensity in the present. These may include obvious traumatic events, but they can also involve more subtle experiences such as ongoing criticism, rejection, or moments where the client developed negative beliefs about themselves. Using bilateral stimulation within the EMDR protocol, I guide clients in revisiting these experiences in a controlled and supportive way so that the brain can process the memory more adaptively.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy as a way to help clients better understand the different parts of themselves that show up in their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. I have found this approach to be especially meaningful because many people come to therapy feeling confused about why they react in certain ways, why they feel stuck in patterns, or why one part of them wants change while another part resists it. IFS provides a compassionate and non-judgmental framework for making sense of these internal conflicts by recognizing that we all have different parts within us, each with its own role, intention, and history. In practice, I help clients begin to identify the parts of themselves that show up in their day-to-day lives as they navigate challenges, relationships, and decisions. These may include parts that are critical, fearful, protective, avoidant, people-pleasing, or perfectionistic, as well as parts that carry hurt, shame, or vulnerability from past experiences. Rather than viewing these reactions as flaws, IFS allows us to understand them as attempts to help the client cope or stay safe in some way. This shift alone can be very powerful, as clients often move from feeling frustrated with themselves to feeling more curious and compassionate toward their internal experience.

Strength-Based

I consistently approach treatment from a strength-based perspective, which means I intentionally focus on identifying and building upon the abilities, resilience, and positive qualities that each client already possesses. I believe that every person comes into therapy with strengths, even when they feel overwhelmed, discouraged, or unsure of themselves. By helping clients recognize these strengths, I aim to shift the focus away from what is wrong with them and toward what is already working, what has helped them survive difficult experiences, and what can support them in moving forward.

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