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Licensed to practice in Illinois and accepts 45 insurances. Specializes in Anxiety, Depression, Self Esteem and 6 more.

Lauren Oestmann

LCSW, 17 years of experience
Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm
VirtualAvailable

Do you find yourself feeling overwhelmed or like you just can't get everything done? Do you often wonder how everyone else seems to do it but you can't? Like you are letting people down or you are not enough? Do you struggle to find joy in everyday life or find it difficult to shut down the racing thoughts and enjoy the moment? If so, you have come to the right place. My name is Lauren and I am a licensed clinical social worker in the state of Illinois. I have over 13 years of experience working in a wide range of settings. I have worked with families, children and teens, in residential substance abuse, private practice, adoption preservation and correctional settings. I have helped clients conquer anxiety, depression, burn out, mom guilt, process past traumas and find the coping skills necessary to live a balanced life. My style can be described as client centered, strength based and solution focused. I use cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, motivational interviewing, trauma focused therapy, mindfulness and solution - focused therapy, in combination with genuine conversation. I take a laid back approach as I believe in meeting my clients where they are and working at a pace that is comfortable for them. I know that reaching out for help can be scary but you shouldn't have to struggle alone.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session, we will focus on what led you to therapy and what you hope to gain from working with me. We will work to set goals and I will be happy to answer any questions you may have. I know the first session can be intimidating, therefore I strive to make sessions comfortable and work to meet my clients where they are.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

My greatest strength as a provider is listening, and making my clients feel comfortable during sessions. I am real and approachable in sessions, but will not hesitate to let you know what I think. I believe that therapy should be a genuine experience focused on the individual needs of each client. I work to ensure that sessions do not feel cold or forced.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

Anyone struggling with challenges of parenthood, adulthood, burn out, mom guilt, self esteem, past trauma, depression and anxiety.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Self Esteem

Other specialties

Coping Skills

Family Conflict

Parenting

Peer Relationships

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

I identify as

White

Woman

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)

Children (6 to 12)

Elders (65 and above)

Teenagers (13 to 17)

Licensed in

Illinois

Accepts

Aetna

Aetna - ASR Health Benefits

Aetna - Allied Benefits

Aetna - Luminare

Aetna - Medicare

Aetna - Moda

Aetna - WebTPA

Aetna – HealthEZ

All Savers

Amerihealth Administrators

Amerihealth NJ Medicare Advantage

Arlo

AvMed

Blue Cross Blue Shield

Anthem

Independence Blue Cross

Independence Administrators

Cash - $100 per session

Centivo

Cigna

Cigna - HealthEZ

EAP:Cigna

EAP:Evernorth

EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Evernorth

GTEB

Golden Rule

Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare

Humana - Medicare

Humana Dual (Medicare & Medicaid)

UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Optum

OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions

Oscar

Oxford

Surest (formerly Bind)

Tufts Health/Cigna

UMR - Advocate Aurora Health

United Medical Resources

UnitedHealthcare Dual (Medicare & Medicaid)

UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance

UnitedHealthcare Shared Services

UnitedHealthcare StudentResources

UnitedHealthcare/Optum - Medicare

UnitedHealthcare Complete Care (C-SNP)

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Dialectical Behavior (DBT)

I have been using CBT for over 13 years when working with clients to face a number of challenging issues.

, 40 ratings

1 rating with written reviews

December 5, 2025

I struggled for a long time to find a therapist that I felt truly understood, listened and helped me. I am so so glad I came across Lauren and have been seeing her since 2023. She has helped me through so many challenging moments and always been very direct and honest which I appreciate. Lauren truly cares about her patients - what I think truly sets her apart is her ability to meet with many people and still remember small details to make you feel like she's truly listening and cares.

Verified client, age 25-34
Review shared after session 70 with Lauren