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Licensed to practice in California and accepts 74 insurances. Specializes in Anxiety, Peer Relationships, Self Esteem and 10 more.

Mark G Koch

LMFT, 30 years of experience

Clients say this provider is

Authentic
Humorous
Direct
VirtualAvailable

About me

Hello, You may have often heard some people say that therapy is for only those with a mental illness or are "crazy". I'm Mark G. Koch and have been a licensed Marriage Family Therapist since 1996, and I can honestly tell you that those type of statements are a myth. Everyone has a view of how the world works and we use the tools we have to deal with our issues, but occasionally there comes a time when a problem arises that we have no answer to. At this point we become "stuck". You can say that these are the cards life has dealt you and do nothing, or you can get help to learn new ways to see your world and use new tools to change your world. You have the strength and you have the power and somewhere in your mind, you have the answers. My job is to help you find them and to show you how to use them, so that you can begin to move towards whatever your goals are for your world. I have had the opportunity to work in a variety of settings, including private practice, psychiatric hospitals, County Mental Health, non-profit organizations and most recently utilizing remote virtual therapy. I have worked with children, adolescents, adults, couples, families, and groups. My expertise in is Obsessive Compulsive Disorders and other Anxiety Disorders along with Depression, but I also have had a multitude of experience with Personality Disorders, Bi-Polar Disorders, and with dual diagnosis. A dual diagnosis is when a person has a mental health issue such as depression, and is also dealing with a drug/alcohol issue. Having said all of this, I actually have had a great amount of success dealing with adolescents, those having relationship issues, and communication between couples. I look forward to hearing from you.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

I seem to have a different way of looking at someone's issues, for often I have been able to listen to and observe what many other clinicians may miss. Most people feel that they are alone in their issues and often feel embarrassed in talking about certain things because they may be the only person who is dealing with that issue. What a person can learn from me, is that no matter how strange your issue or thoughts may be, there are many others with the same issue, feeling the same way you are. We all are different, but in some ways we are all the same. I utilize analogies and stories that pertain to the persons life, so that they can understand their issue, without having to hear a lot of "big psych words". I don't like big psych words.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

My biggest strength is something that I never studied or was taught. Since I was a child I have always watched other people and tried to understand what they were doing and why. Such as two people arguing in a shopping mall. After all these years, I have been able to see patterns in human behavior, that has actually helped me in seeing patterns that one may live their lives by. It is often these patterns that need to change and not the person. I also have discovered a simple technique that has allowed me to get adolescents to talk with me. If you have ever tried to talk to a teenager, then you know it is the same in therapy. Please note: The calendar that you see on this site does not always correspond exactly to my personal schedule. I may have to change appt times if needed.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

Anxiety disorders, depression, relationship issues, communication issues (especially for couples), adolescents (all issues), personality disorders, transitioning from different life phases (empty nest, divorce, youth to adult)

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety

Peer Relationships

Self Esteem

Other specialties

Bipolar Disorder

Coping Skills

Couples Counseling

Depression

Family Conflict

Family Therapy

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Personality Disorders

Identifies as

Man

White

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)

Elders (65 and above)

Teenagers (13 to 17)

Licensed in

California

Accepts

Aetna

Aetna - ASR Health Benefits

Aetna - Allied Benefits

Aetna - Lucent Health

Aetna - Luminare

Aetna - Medicare

Aetna - Moda

Aetna - WebTPA

Aetna – HealthEZ

All Savers

Ambetter from Health Net

Amerihealth Administrators

Amerihealth NJ Medicare Advantage

Anthem

Blue Cross

Independence Administrators

Independence Blue Cross

Arlo

AvMed

Blue Shield

Blue Shield of California - Medi-Cal

Blue Shield of California Promise Health Plan (Medi-Cal)

Cash - $150 per session

Centivo

Central California Alliance for Health (Medi-Cal)

Cigna

Cigna - HealthEZ

EAP:Cigna

EAP:Evernorth

EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Evernorth

GTEB

Gold Coast Health Plan (Medi-Cal)

Gold Coast Health Plan Total Care Advantage (HMO D-SNP)

Golden Rule

Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare

Health Net (Commercial)

Health Net (Medi-Cal)

Community Health Plan of Imperial Valley (Medi-Cal)

CalViva Health (Medi-Cal)

Health Plan of San Joaquin/Mountain Valley Health Plan – Medi-Cal

Humana - Medicare

Humana Dual (Medicare & Medicaid)

Blue Shield of California - Medicare

Independence Personal Choice 65 PPO

Independence Keystone 65 HMO

L.A. Care PASC-SEIU

L.A. Care Covered

L.A. Care Covered Direct

L.A. Care Health Plan (Medi-Cal)

L.A. Care Medicare Plus (HMO D-SNP)

UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Optum

OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions

Oscar

Oxford

Partnership HealthPlan of California (Medi-Cal)

SFHP Care Plus (HMO D-SNP)

San Francisco Health Plan (Medi-Cal)

Santa Clara Family Health Plan - Medi-Cal

Scripps Health Plan

Sharp Health Plan

Surest (formerly Bind)

Carelon Behavioral Health (Commercial)

Sutter Health Plan

IHSS Healthy Workers

Tufts Health/Cigna

United Medical Resources

UnitedHealthcare/Optum - Medicare

UnitedHealthcare Complete Care (C-SNP)

UnitedHealthcare Dual (Medicare & Medicaid)

UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance

UnitedHealthcare Shared Services

UnitedHealthcare StudentResources

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

This is the closest treatment method to the style of therapy I use. I have developed my own style of therapy over the years but Cognitive Behavioral Therapy makes the most sense to me and it is much clearer and easier to understand. Not just for the clients but for me also, since I do not care for big psych words. The concept is fairly easy. Changing your thoughts, changes your mood and emotions, which changes your behaviors, which change your thoughts and so on.

, 120 ratings

17 ratings with written reviews

August 29, 2026

It can be very challenging to find the right fit when looking for a therapist for your family but we got lucky and found Mark he has been great for our needs thank you Mark

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 5 with Mark

August 11, 2026

I am grateful that I was able to find Mark through my normal health care provider. My biggest obstacle when it comes to therapy is finding someone that I am comfortable talking with. I am a very different kind of person and regular therapy does not seem to understand me as an individual. I am super thankful to have someone now to talk about my personal life with. I need to improve my way of thinking over "making my relationship work". I now have options and someone to talk to. It's a good day!

Verified client, age 45-54
Review shared after session 1 with Mark

August 7, 2026

I was drawn to see if this provider was a good fit due to two main things: 1. experience in both life and profession to likely be able to have experience in some way with most of my life experiences thus far and 2. Something that wasn't too standard in their bio or approach. Mark self ~proclaims unconventional / non~"text book" approaches as a general. So far this seems to allow both the therapeutic relationship and client~directed care be less intimidating. He simplifies things in the best way

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 7 with Mark