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Rated 4.6 stars out of 5, 70 ratings

Alston Friday

LMFT, 5 years of experience

Authentic
Solution oriented
Open-minded
Virtual
Next available on

About me

Hi! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapy (LMFT) based in California. I received my Masters from the Grand Canyon University and have been practicing for 3 years. I believe I was born to help others and with my life experience and understanding my purpose lead me to being a therapist. I enjoyed helping young teens, adults struggling with career stress and burnout become the best versions of themselves. I focused on addiction, couples, marriage and improving family structure.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our session you will learn effectively and usable coping skills. These skill are vital to healing and move through the barriers of life. You deserve to feel confident in yourself, how to communicate, and have successes in all aspects of life.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

As your therapist I will walk alongside you and support you. I understand that you may be feeling overwhelmed with what life has sent your way. When stress or doubt impair you, the ability to move forward can become simply overwhelming. My strength is to bring comfort and understand to you to learn how to understand your own self and root of the challenges.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

My background and training have allowed a comfort level in my approach to addiction, severe diagnosis, and trauma. I treat the whole person, working together to resolve and increase daily satisfaction. We will collaborate to identify the skills needed for you to grow.

Specialties

Top specialties

Couples Counseling
Depression
Self Esteem

Other specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Family Therapy
Life Transitions
Men's Issues
Mood Disorders
Parenting
Personality Disorders
Trauma and PTSD

I identify as

Black / African American
Man

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)
Children (6 to 12)
Elders (65 and above)
Teenagers (13 to 17)

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Modify dysfunctional thoughts patterns. Once the patient understand the relationship between thought, feelings, and behavior they are able to modify or change the pattern of thinking to cope with stress in a more positive manner.

Dialectical Behavior (DBT)

This treatment has been great for client with trauma, dual diagnose and borderline personality. Utilizing mindfulness, developing skills to manage distress tolerance, emotional regulation, improving interpersonal problem-solving skills. The goal is to improve emotional cognitive regulation.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

This treatment is couple focus. My experience working with this method is to works to De-escalation couples with conflict, also meet attachment need safely.

Motivational Interviewing

My experience I have helped people find the motivation to make a positive behavior change.

Solution Focused Brief Treatment

I helped client finding solution to problem, not a discovering the cause or origins of the problem. This Method is great for client want to be achieve goals.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

California

Accepts

Aetna
Aetna - WebTPA
All Savers
Ambetter from Health Net
Anthem
Blue Cross
AvMed
Blue Shield
Blue Shield (MHSA) Magellan
Carelon Behavioral Health (Commercial)
L.A. Care PASC-SEIU
L.A. Care Covered
L.A. Care Covered Direct
Cash - $100 per session
Central California Alliance for Health (Medi-Cal)
Cigna
EAP:Cigna
EAP:Evernorth
EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum
Evernorth
Gold Coast Health Plan (Medi-Cal)
Golden Rule
Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare
Health Net (Commercial)
Health Net (Medi-Cal)
Community Health Plan of Imperial Valley (Medi-Cal)
CalViva Health (Medi-Cal)
Health Plan of San Joaquin - Medi-Cal
L.A. Care Health Plan (Medi-Cal)
UnitedHealthcare/Optum
Optum
OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions
Oscar
Oxford
Partnership HealthPlan of California (Medi-Cal)
San Francisco Health Plan (Medi-Cal)
Santa Clara Family Health Plan - Medi-Cal
Scripps Health Plan
Sharp Health Plan
Surest (formerly Bind)
Tufts Health/Cigna
United Medical Resources
UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance
UnitedHealthcare Shared Services
UnitedHealthcare StudentResources
Rated 4.6 stars out of 5, 70 ratings

3 ratings with written reviews

June 14, 2025

God... and he's been such a blessing to our family

Verified client, age 45-54

Review shared after session 57 with Alston

April 28, 2025

He was amazingly genuine and direct. He was able to communicate to me what I needed to hear, even if it was hard for me to hear it, and he managed to be kind about it all.

Verified client, age 35-44

Review shared after session 1 with Alston

February 17, 2025

Amazing -direct straightforward -

Verified client, age 35-44

Review shared after session 5 with Alston