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Licensed to practice in California and accepts 26 insurances. Specializes in Anger Management, Anxiety, Coping Skills and 3 more.

Elijah Gildea

LMFT, 20 years of experience
Authentic
Solution oriented
Open-minded
VirtualAvailable

About me

My goal as a therapist is to provide support and encouragement to you during challenging times. I believe my role is to use my education and experience to help you achieve your desired outcome and help you find ways to learn to live with your present life circumstances. I specialize in evidence-based treatments for a wide range of conditions including anxiety, depression, career issues, difficult life transitions, adverse childhood experiences, grief & loss, relationship issues, anger management & domestic violence, and athletic performance. I grew up in a small coastal town in Northern California, and graduated from Humboldt State University. From there I moved to Redding California and started my career as a Marriage and Family Therapist.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In the first therapy session, clients can expect a welcoming and supportive environment where they can begin to share what life events bring them to therapy, including stressors or goals they may have. the client can begin to share their story at their own pace. The primary goal is of this initial meeting is for us to get to know each other and begin building a trusting therapeutic relationship.

The treatment methods and tools I utilize

I utilize an integrative approach provide individualized treatment based on each client’s unique needs. I have extensive training in Cognitive Behavioral interventions and other therapeutic approaches including Narrative, Psychodynamic and Solution Focused therapy.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

As a provider, some of my strengths lie in my ability to create a safe, and non-judgmental space where clients can feel seen and heard.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

As a therapist, I am best positioned to serve individuals who are seeking a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences. I specialize in working with adults, particularly those navigating challenges related to anxiety, depression, anger or life transitions.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Other specialties

Life Transitions

Military/Veterans

Parenting

Identifies as

Man

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)

Elders (65 and above)

Licensed in

California

Accepts

Aetna

Aetna - ASR Health Benefits

Aetna - Allied Benefits

Aetna - Luminare

Aetna - Medicare

Aetna - Moda

Aetna - WebTPA

Aetna – HealthEZ

All Savers

AvMed

Cash - $120 per session

Golden Rule

Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare

UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Optum

OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions

Oscar

Oxford

Surest (formerly Bind)

United Medical Resources

UnitedHealthcare Dual (Medicare & Medicaid)

UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance

UnitedHealthcare Shared Services

UnitedHealthcare StudentResources

UnitedHealthcare/Optum - Medicare

UnitedHealthcare Complete Care (C-SNP)

Location

Virtual

, 82 ratings

4 ratings with written reviews

June 23, 2026

I selected Elijah based on what he shared in his profile, as I was specifically looking for someone to help me with anger management. Today was my first appointment, which was primarily an intake session, but I found him easy to talk to and felt comfortable sharing my thoughts and experiences. He listened attentively, and I look forward to continuing our work together.

Verified client, age 45-54
Review shared after session 1 with Elijah

September 26, 2025

He listens and gives useful feedback.

Verified client, age 65+
Review shared after session 5 with Elijah

June 26, 2025

Elijah is a wonderful listener and made me feel very comfortable during my first session with him. I am looking forward to working with him and benefiting from his many years of experience. I started the session extremely anxious and by the end of the session I felt at ease and in good cheer!

Verified client, age 45-54
Review shared after session 1 with Elijah