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Licensed to practice in 10 states and accepts 46 insurances. Specializes in Anger Management, Sex Therapy, Women's Issues and 10 more.

Dr. Olushola Bakare

(she/her)

LMFT, 20 years of experience
Authentic
Solution oriented
Empowering
VirtualAvailable

About me

My name is Dr. Olushola Bakare, and I'm a board-certified Psychotherapist. I attended St Joseph College. I'm happy to help you today with any of your concerns. I enjoy empowering people and digging out their strengths. I don't ask fish to fly, neither do I ask birds to swim. I respect everyone's strengths and help my client recognize them. I love to highlight my client's strengths. I offer a safe, warm, therapeutic, judgment-free space for Adults (18+) and Older Adults (65+). I am sorry, but I do not accept clients who pay in cash. Also, every late cancellation or no-show accrues a late charge fee. It is my ethical duty to officially terminate our therapeutic relationship when it is reasonably clear that the client is no longer beneficent, services are no longer required, counseling no longer serves the client's needs and interests, or Dr. Olushola Bakare, LMFT limits do not allow the provision of further counseling services. It is the policy of Dr. Olushola Bakare, LMFT, that our professional relationship will be terminated after a one-month consistent lapse of meeting with a client. Dr. Olushola Bakare, LMFT, will attempt to notify you of this change in status as soon as possible after one month. My ethical duty is identifying, being available, and caring for current clients. It could feel awkward for our relationship to end, yet it is not meant to be discourteous in any way. I do not complete disability forms (Social Security, work excuse, FMLA, Court papers/legal papers, emotional support letters, etc). NO COUPLE THERAPY OR MEDICATION MANAGEMENT, PLEASE!

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session together, we will start with brief introductions and then dive into the reason why an appointment is made. This will help us to collaboratively create a treatment plan homework is assigned and we round up with questions and answers and follow-up appointment will be made.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

Shifting our mindset and rewriting our script are my passions.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I work with any client who is willing to make a change in any sphere of their life, career, marriage, and relationship. My client wants to make the change, "tired of being tried," but some of my clients do not have the tools or have tools but feel stuck. They feel stuck, overwhelmed, tired, anxious, and depressed. We will work together to get to our goals.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anger Management

Sex Therapy

Women's Issues

Other specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Insomnia/Sleep Issues

Life Transitions

Postpartum

Racism

Self Esteem

Spirituality

Identifies as

Black / African American

Christian

Woman

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)

Elders (65 and above)

Licensed in

Connecticut

Delaware

District of Columbia

Florida

Idaho

Illinois

Maine

Maryland

Massachusetts

New Jersey

Accepts

Aetna

Aetna - ASR Health Benefits

Aetna - Allied Benefits

Aetna - Lucent Health

Aetna - Luminare

Aetna - Moda

Aetna - WebTPA

Aetna – HealthEZ

All Savers

Ambetter Health

Amerihealth Administrators

Highmark

Arlo

AvMed

Blue Benefit Administrators of Massachusetts (BBA)

Blue Cross Blue Shield

Anthem

Independence Administrators

Independence Blue Cross

CareFirst

Horizon

Cash - $200 per session

Centivo

Cigna

Cigna - HealthEZ

Evernorth

GTEB

Golden Rule

Harvard Pilgrim

Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare

Amerihealth

Kaiser Permanente

UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Optum

OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions

Oscar

Oxford

Surest (formerly Bind)

Tufts Health

Tufts Health/Cigna

UMR - Advocate Aurora Health

United Medical Resources

UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance

UnitedHealthcare Shared Services

UnitedHealthcare StudentResources

WellCare

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

NO FAMILY, COUPLE THERAPY OR MEDICATION MANAGEMENT PLEASE. I DO NOT DO COURT PAPERWORK, FMLA, ESA I use CBT, DBT, narrative therapy, Christian counseling, compassion therapy, collaboration therapy, and faith-based therapy, and sex therapy

, 306 ratings

28 ratings with written reviews

August 11, 2026

I was able to relax, and now I can think through what would be best for me moving forward. I feel really supported.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Dr.

July 17, 2026

"Finding a therapist who understands both the clinical and spiritual sides of life can be tough. Because I work in the mental health field, it's usually difficult for me to open up. Dr. Bakare immediately put me at ease. She is patient, inviting, and weaves faith into the therapy process beautifully and authentically. I am so grateful for her guidance."

Verified client, age 55-64
Review shared after session 1 with Dr.

July 15, 2026

Dr. Olushola is an amazing woman who cares for her clients. Happy to have found her.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 2 with Dr.