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Veronica Fender

LCSW, 25 years of experience

Authentic
Empowering
Warm
Virtual
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About me

Hello, my name is Veronica. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) dedicated to providing compassionate support and professional guidance to individuals. With a strong commitment to mental health and well-being, I strive to create a safe and supportive environment where clients can explore their challenges and work toward positive change. As a licensed social worker, I am extensively trained in a variety of evidence-based treatments, including Cognitive Processing Therapy for PTSD. Additionally, I utilize Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to support clients dealing with depression and anxiety, ensuring that my therapeutic interventions are both effective and adaptable to individual needs. I am passionate about making a positive impact on the lives of those I serve. My goal is to help clients navigate life's challenges, foster personal growth, and promote well-being through compassionate and ethical social work practice.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Embarking on a journey of therapy is a significant step towards improving mental health and emotional well-being. The first therapy session plays a pivotal role in setting the foundation for this journey. This guide will walk you through what to expect during the initial meeting and how it will help in formulating a diagnosis and subsequent treatment plans. During our first session, the primary goal is to gather comprehensive information about the reasons that have led you to seek therapy. This process involves discussing your current issues, past experiences, and any factors that might be contributing to your present state. The questions asked are designed to provide a holistic view of your situation, enabling a thorough understanding of your needs. Alongside verbal inquiries, I will also use various measurements that were sent to you prior to the session. These assessments might include questionnaires, surveys, or standardized tests designed to gauge specific aspects of your mental health. Together, these tools will help in forming a detailed picture of your situation. Once the information has been collected, I will analyze the data to determine an accurate diagnosis. This step is crucial as it lays the groundwork for identifying the most effective treatment strategies. The diagnosis will encompass your symptoms, their severity, and any underlying conditions that need to be addressed. Based on the diagnosis, I will offer you a range of treatment options that are supported by scientific evidence. These may include cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment therapy (ACT) Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) for PTSD, and other therapeutic modalities proven to be effective. Rest assured, I am certified in these treatments and have extensive experience in their application. The first therapy session is a vital step in your path to mental well-being. Through a detailed collection of information and careful assessment, we will uncover the root causes of your challenges and pave the way for effective treatment. With evidence-based therapies tailored to your needs, you will be equipped with the tools and support necessary for your journey towards healing and growth. Remember, therapy is a collaborative process, and your active participation and openness will significantly enhance its effectiveness. Together, we will work towards achieving your goals and improving your quality of life.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

Areas of Expertise • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) • Major Depressive Disorder (MDD) • Anxiety • Evidence-Based Practice Cognitive Processing Therapy for Trauma: This certification ensures that Veronica is proficient in Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), a well-established treatment for PTSD that focuses on modifying unhelpful beliefs related to the trauma. • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for Depression: Veronica is certified in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), which helps individuals accept what is out of their personal control and commit to action that improves and enriches their lives, particularly useful for treating depression. • Moral Reconation Therapy (MRT) for Recidivism and Substance Use: This certification shows Veronica’s ability to implement MRT, a cognitive-behavioral therapy aimed at decreasing recidivism rates and treating substance abuse by increasing moral reasoning.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

The Reward of Teaching Life Skills Across Generations Working with both young and older adults is an experience that offers unique challenges and immense satisfaction. Each age group brings its own perspectives, needs, and aspirations, making the process of providing guidance and support a continually enriching journey. Empowering Young Adults Young adults are at a pivotal stage in their lives, often standing on the threshold of independence. Providing life skills to individuals in this group is not just about teaching practical tasks, but also about instilling confidence and fostering resilience. It is profoundly rewarding to witness their growth as they master budgeting, cooking, effective communication, and personal responsibility. These foundational skills empower young adults to navigate the complexities of adulthood with greater assurance, setting them on a path toward self-sufficiency and fulfillment. Supporting Older Adults Older adults, meanwhile, possess a wealth of experiences and knowledge that can enrich any interaction. Supporting them often involves helping to maintain independence, adapt to change, and stay engaged with their communities. The exchange is mutually beneficial: older adults share valuable life lessons and perspectives, while I offer assistance that helps them continue to live meaningful, active lives. The sense of connection and respect that develops in these relationships is deeply rewarding. Working with both age groups allows for a unique intergenerational perspective. Young adults often bring fresh ideas and energy, while older adults contribute wisdom and patience. Providing life skills and support to young and older adults is not merely a profession, but a calling. It is a privilege to play a part in their journeys, to witness transformation and growth, and to be reminded daily of the resilience and potential that exist at every stage of life. This work continues to inspire me, fueling my passion for helping others thrive, no matter where they are on their path to independence. Working as a therapist with members of the LGBTQ+ community has been a profoundly transformative experience. The unique challenges they face—ranging from societal stigma and discrimination to internal struggles with identity—often contribute to mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). My journey in helping these individuals has not only deepened my empathy and understanding but also highlighted the importance of specialized support and advocacy.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD

Other specialties

Addiction
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
Military/Veterans
Mood Disorders
Older Adults
Self Esteem
Spirituality
Substance Misuse

I identify as

Hispanic / Latinx
Woman

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)
Elders (65 and above)

My treatment methods

Acceptance and commitment (ACT)

Restoring Hope and Vitality Through Psychological Flexibility Depression can be a profoundly isolating experience, often leaving individuals feeling hopeless, numb, and disconnected from the richness of life. When negative thoughts dominate, it is common for people to feel as though they are merely surviving—trapped in a cycle of despair and unable to engage meaningfully with the world around them. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) offers a compassionate and effective approach for helping individuals reclaim their lives, even in the midst of depression. ACT is a form of psychotherapy that emphasizes accepting difficult emotions and thoughts rather than fighting them, while simultaneously committing to actions that align with one's values. This approach is rooted in the idea that psychological suffering is often exacerbated by efforts to avoid or control unpleasant internal experiences. Instead, ACT encourages mindful awareness, acceptance, and the cultivation of psychological flexibility—the ability to be present, open up, and do what matters. For those who have lost hope and feel emotionally numb due to depression, ACT provides practical tools and perspectives to break free from the grip of negative thinking. Depression often convinces individuals that their negative thoughts are absolute truths. ACT helps people recognize that thoughts are simply mental events—not facts—and that they do not have to dictate behavior. By learning to "defuse" from these thoughts, individuals can begin to make choices based on their values rather than their fears or pain. The ultimate goal of ACT is to help individuals move beyond mere survival and toward a life that feels purposeful, connected, and rich. Even when happiness feels out of reach, ACT encourages people to take actions that create meaning and satisfaction, gradually restoring hope and emotional engagement. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy provides a powerful framework for helping those who feel stuck in depression and disconnected from life. By fostering acceptance, mindfulness, and value-based action, ACT empowers individuals to step out of the shadows of hopelessness and numbness, and begin living again with intention and vitality.

Cognitive Processing (CPT)

Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) is a specialized, evidence-based treatment approach for individuals suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). It is particularly effective for those whose PTSD stems from childhood trauma, sexual assault, military service, domestic violence. These experiences can profoundly impact a person's mental health, often leaving them feeling trapped by their past and unable to fully engage with the present or envision a hopeful future. Understanding the Impact of Trauma Traumatic experiences, whether they occur during childhood, through sexual assault, or in the context of military service, can fundamentally alter how individuals perceive themselves, others, and the world. Many survivors struggle with persistent feelings of fear, shame, guilt, and mistrust. As a result, they may find it difficult to maintain close relationships, pushing away loved ones due to fears of being hurt, misunderstood, or rejected. PTSD often manifests as intrusive memories, emotional numbness, hypervigilance, and avoidance of reminders of the trauma. These symptoms can make it challenging for individuals to participate in daily life, maintain employment, or enjoy social activities. CPT is designed to help individuals identify and modify unhelpful thoughts and beliefs related to their traumatic experiences. The therapy involves: • Educating you about PTSD and its effects • Helping you recognize how trauma has influenced your thinking • Challenging and reframing distorted or stuck thoughts ("stuck points") • Encouraging the development of healthier beliefs about yourself, others, and the world Through structured sessions, you learn to process your trauma, reduce avoidance behaviors, and gradually reconnect with your emotions and the present moment. One of the common consequences of PTSD is difficulty maintaining close relationships. Fears stemming from the trauma—such as fear of abandonment, betrayal, or further harm—can lead you to withdraw from loved ones or engage in behaviors that push others away. CPT helps you understand these patterns and develop new strategies for building trust and intimacy. By addressing the root causes of these fears and working through them in therapy, individuals can begin to rebuild meaningful connections and experience greater emotional closeness. Cognitive Processing Therapy offers hope for those feeling stuck in their past and anxious about their future. By learning to challenge and change the thoughts that keep them anchored in fear and hurt, individuals can begin to move forward, reclaim their lives, and foster healthier relationships. With commitment and support, CPT empowers survivors of childhood trauma, sexual assault, and military service to heal and live more fully in the present.

Supportive

I am dedicated to providing supportive therapy that empowers you to develop and strengthen healthy coping skills. My approach is centered on helping you communicate effectively, establish and maintain personal boundaries, and identify as well as understand negative behavioral and cognitive patterns. These patterns may be influencing various aspects of your life, including your relationships with family, friends, and colleagues at work. Building Healthy Communication Skills Effective communication is foundational to healthy relationships and personal well-being. In therapy, we work together to practice assertive communication, active listening, and expressing your needs clearly. By enhancing your ability to communicate, you can reduce misunderstandings, resolve conflicts more constructively, and foster deeper connections with those around you. Learning to Set Boundaries Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining emotional and mental health. I will guide you in recognizing your limits and learning to say no when necessary, without guilt or fear. Together, we explore ways to establish boundaries that protect your well-being while still allowing you to engage meaningfully with others. This can improve your relationships and help prevent feelings of overwhelm or resentment. Recognizing and Addressing Negative Patterns Many individuals struggle with recurring negative thoughts and behaviors that impact their daily lives. Through supportive therapy, we identify these patterns and examine how they may be affecting your relationships and personal growth. By increasing self-awareness, you can begin to replace unhelpful habits with healthier alternatives, leading to improved emotional balance and resilience. Areas of Impact • Family: Learn to navigate family dynamics, communicate your needs, and cultivate more harmonious relationships. • Friends: Build fulfilling friendships by expressing yourself openly and respecting both your own and others' boundaries. • Work: Manage workplace stress, set professional boundaries, and develop constructive ways to handle challenges and collaborations. Moving Forward Together Supportive therapy is a collaborative process. My goal is to provide a safe, nonjudgmental environment where you can explore your concerns, build new skills, and achieve meaningful personal growth. Through our work together, you’ll be better equipped to face life’s challenges, enhance your relationships, and lead a more fulfilling life.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

California

Accepts

Aetna
Aetna - Allied Benefits
Aetna - Luminare
Aetna - WebTPA
All Savers
AvMed
Carelon Behavioral Health (Commercial)
L.A. Care PASC-SEIU
L.A. Care Covered
L.A. Care Covered Direct
Cash - $100 per session
Golden Rule
Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare
UnitedHealthcare/Optum
Optum
OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions
Oscar
Oxford
Surest (formerly Bind)
United Medical Resources
UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance
UnitedHealthcare Shared Services
UnitedHealthcare StudentResources
Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 10 ratings

2 ratings with written reviews

August 2, 2025

Veronica has a very pleasant personality, she makes me feel understood. And makes me focus on the real problem which is to focus on the behavior that I had witnessed from ex-husband thru the years more than in his words.

Verified client, age 55-64

Review shared after session 2 with Veronica

June 28, 2025

My first impression of Veronica was a positive one and I look forward to working with her. She was a good listener and shared some good therapy styles that I am interested in practicing with her. Her warm energy and authentic communication made me feel very comfortable and at ease.

Verified client, age 35-44

Review shared after session 1 with Veronica