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Okeema Polite

LMFT, 26 years of experience
Solution oriented
Warm
Empowering

Hello, and welcome. I’m glad you’re here. Choosing to begin therapy is a meaningful and courageous step toward greater self-awareness and personal growth. While the process of growth can sometimes feel uncomfortable, it often creates opportunities for healing, clarity, and lasting transformation. I believe that each person has the capacity for growth and the ability to create a more balanced and fulfilling life when they feel seen, supported, and genuinely understood. My approach is strength-based and collaborative. In our work together, we will explore patterns that may no longer be serving you, build on your existing strengths and resilience, and develop practical strategies that support meaningful, lasting change aligned with your values and goals. With over twenty years of experience, I bring a compassionate, collaborative approach to therapy that integrates practical tools to support meaningful change. I often draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), and Motivational Interviewing (MI)—approaches that help strengthen self-awareness, build confidence, and support motivation for positive growth. In addition to working with adults, I have extensive experience and a strong passion for supporting teens and young adults as they navigate the challenges of growth, independence, and self-discovery. I am deeply committed to creating a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where you feel heard, respected, and empowered. My goal is to walk alongside you as you move toward greater wellness, clarity, and balance—whatever that may look like for you.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

You've taken the first step—come as you are. After reviewing consents, we’ll spend much of our first session with me listening closely to understand what brings you in, why now and what you hope to achieve. In order to support you on your journey I must first understand your goals; and from there, we’ll explore creating a path forward that feels supportive, empowering, and uniquely yours.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

You are the expert and author of your own story, and it is my privilege and honor to support you on your journey. I believe that authenticity is essential in creating the emotional safety necessary for individuals to engage in the discomfort that meaningful growth requires. My calm and sincere presence helps cultivate a space where you feel empowered to express your true self without fear of judgment.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

If you find yourself feeling uncertain yet ready to gain clarity and establish meaningful goals, I invite you to explore this process collaboratively. I believe in each individual’s inherent capacity for growth and change, fostered through increased self-awareness, connection, and self-compassion. My approach emphasizes your active engagement in your personal goals; by participating intentionally in this work, you lay the groundwork for genuine progress and sustainable change.

SpecialtiesTop specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
Other specialties
Addiction
Anger Management
Child or Adolescent
I identify as
Black / African American
Woman
Serves ages
Adults (18 to 64)
Teenagers (13 to 17)
Licensed in
California
Accepts
Aetna
Location
Virtual
My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) has been an integral part of my therapeutic approach for more than twenty years. I find CBT to be a practical and evidence-based framework that fosters self-awareness, intentionality, and self-regulation. It offers clients concrete tools to understand the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. CBT has consistently demonstrated effectiveness in supporting individuals from diverse backgrounds in addressing a wide range of concerns, including depression, anxiety, substance use, and complex relationship or family dynamics.

Motivational Interviewing

With over twenty years of training and direct experience working with individuals that struggle with substances, Motivational Interviewing (MI) has been an effective intervention to support individuals on their journey to what recovery means for them. I support without judgement and shame; I invite individuals to search for and identify their goals and discover attainable ways to achieve them. While MI is often associated with substance use treatment, it is also highly effective in supporting broader behavior changes—such as improving health habits, enhancing motivation for personal growth, or addressing patterns that may interfere with relationships or emotional well-being. I value this approach because it honors each person’s autonomy and capacity for change, meeting clients where they are while fostering confidence and readiness to move forward.

Mindfulness-Based Therapy

Mindfulness-based therapy is less about "fixing" what feels broken and more about gaining self-awareness of oneself—to a place of calm awareness that’s always been there, beneath the noise of everyday life. At its heart, mindfulness invites you to pause, breathe, and truly notice what’s happening in the present moment—your thoughts, your emotions, the sensations in your body—without trying to push anything away or hold anything too tightly. It’s about learning to meet your experience with kindness, even when it’s difficult.

, 6 ratings

2 ratings with written reviews

December 8, 2025

I met with Okeema for the first time today, and immediately felt like I was in the right hands. She asked meaningful questions and created a safe environment where I could share more of myself. She listens deeply and with real understanding, which made it easy for me to open up.

Verified client, age 25-34
Review shared after session 1 with Okeema

December 1, 2025

Just finished my first session with Ms. Polite. She was excellent, very friendly and easy to talk to. This was my fisrt time trying therapy, I'm looking forward to the next session.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Okeema

Okeema Polite is fully booked.