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Licensed to practice in 2 states and accepts 40 insurances. Specializes in Anxiety, Child or Adolescent, Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD) and 7 more.

Nilani Shankar

LPC, 3 years of experience

Clients say this provider is

Intelligent
Warm
Empowering
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About me

You might have started to notice feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or somehow not quite like yourself lately. Perhaps part of you is already wondering what it would feel like to have a little more clarity and ease. I earned my psychology doctorate degree from the University of Connecticut and specialize in helping individuals manage anxiety, stress, and life transitions with clarity and confidence. In our work together, you will find a warm, nonjudgmental space where you can feel heard, understood, and supported. My approach is collaborative and practical, and at a pace that feels right for you. Together, we can begin to develop skills and strategies that fit your unique needs to help you feel more grounded, capable, and in control. I am here to support you in that process. I invite you to explore my professional pages to learn more about me: Instagram: @hellodrnilani Linktree: https://linktr.ee/drnilani Thank you for reviewing this additional information regarding my practice policies and scope of care: *I do not provide services for court-ordered clients on this platform. *A cancellation fee will be applied for appointments canceled with less than 24 hours’ notice and also for no-show appointments. *I do not provide telehealth care for individuals currently experiencing active self-harm or suicidal ideation. Your safety is my highest priority, and I strongly encourage seeking in-person therapy and contact local resources where immediate, comprehensive care is available: 911, 988, 211 (Connecticut only), and New Hampshire Rapid Response Access Point: https://nh988.com/

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session, we will focus on getting to know you and understanding what led you to seek therapy. We may talk about your current experiences, the challenges you are facing, and what you would like to change or feel differently about. You can share at whatever pace feels comfortable in a calm, nonjudgmental space. Together, we will begin shaping a clear, collaborative plan that supports your goals and helps you feel more confident, empowered, and in control.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

One of my greatest strengths is helping clients learn practical tools they can begin using right away. My approach is active, collaborative, and tailored to ensure that each strategy fits your unique needs, personality, and daily life. I take an action-oriented approach to therapy, offering practical steps, ideas, and skills that you can practice between sessions.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I work with clients across the lifespan and support individuals navigating anxiety, ADHD, OCD, and challenges related to life transitions. While I enjoy working with people of all ages, I have a particular interest in supporting college-aged students. College can be an exciting but also stressful period marked by academic pressure, changing relationships, growing independence, and major life decisions. I have successfully supported many college students through these experiences. I understand how difficult it can be to balance mental health with a demanding, constantly changing schedule. Telehealth therapy offers a convenient, accessible option for students who may be on the go, away from home, or managing busy academic and personal commitments.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety

Child or Adolescent

Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Other specialties

ADHD

Coping Skills

Learning Disabilities

Life Transitions

Parenting

Peer Relationships

School Issues

Identifies as

Woman

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)

Children (6 to 12)

Teenagers (13 to 17)

Licensed in

Connecticut

New Hampshire

Accepts

Aetna

Aetna - ASR Health Benefits

Aetna - Allied Benefits

Aetna - Lucent Health

Aetna - Luminare

Aetna - Moda

Aetna - WebTPA

Aetna – HealthEZ

All Savers

Amerihealth Administrators

Blue Cross Blue Shield

Anthem

Independence Administrators

Independence Blue Cross

Arlo

AvMed

Cash - $150 per session

Centivo

Cigna

Cigna - HealthEZ

EAP:Cigna

EAP:Evernorth

EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Evernorth

GTEB

Golden Rule

Harvard Pilgrim

Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare

UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Optum

OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions

Oscar

Oxford

Surest (formerly Bind)

Tufts Health

Tufts Health/Cigna

United Medical Resources

UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance

UnitedHealthcare Shared Services

UnitedHealthcare StudentResources

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Eclectic

I use a mix of different therapy methods that fit your unique needs. Together, we will find the best tools with what you are working on in therapy.

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

I also enjoy using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in my practice. CBT is an action-oriented therapy.

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