Have you ever felt so overwhelmed by your to-do list that you froze and couldn’t do a single task? Or have you woken up and felt “stuck,” like you couldn’t get out of bed, let alone complete tasks in your daily life? If this sounds familiar to you, you may have experienced ADHD paralysis.
“ADHD task paralysis is when someone with ADHD feels so overwhelmed by something they need to do it leads to avoidance. Some people may describe it as feeling frozen,” says Grow Therapy provider Julia Preamplume, LCSW.
Many people experience task paralysis from time to time. This can look like procrastination on mundane tasks, feeling too overwhelmed to complete tasks, or overthinking a decision so much that you can’t make a choice. For people with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), task freeze may directly result from their ADHD symptoms, which can affect their overall functioning.
ADHD task paralysis is when someone with ADHD feels so overwhelmed by something they need to do it leads to avoidance.
- Julia Preamplume, LCSW
ADHD paralysis can be frustrating, as it can get in the way of your daily life. It can directly impact your ability to be productive and engage in activities that are important to you. The good news is that it’s possible to work on this issue. With the right tools, skills, and support, many people overcome ADHD paralysis.
What is ADHD paralysis?
ADHD paralysis is a common experience for people who have ADHD. It’s when you have something you need to do, but instead of taking action, you freeze. It’s also called “ADHD shutdown.”
People with ADHD often have difficulties with executive functioning, which is a set of skills that you use to do daily tasks and projects. Executive functioning skills include focus, time management, self-regulation, problem-solving, and more.
Executive dysfunction can make it difficult to initiate tasks or break out of procrastination, leading to task freeze.
Many people with ADHD may struggle to start tasks because of:
- Sensory overload: You may feel overstimulated by sensory input, which can make you “shut down” or feel too overwhelmed to think clearly.
- Lack of focus: Many people with inattentive ADHD struggle to focus, even when they want to. This can make task initiation difficult.
- Lack of motivation: ADHD is associated with a lack of motivation — people may struggle to motivate themselves to do certain tasks. Low motivation levels can lead to task paralysis.
- Hyperfocusing on another task: People with ADHD often “hyperfocus,” which is where they concentrate intensely on something. While hyperfocusing can be a strength, it can be difficult to pull yourself away from the task and do something else.
- Time management issues: You might experience “time blindness,” which is when you find it hard to keep track of time, or you may struggle to plan and organize your time.
- Overwhelm: Difficulties with execution can cause your chores to pile up, leaving you feeling even more overwhelmed by your to-do list.
While you may freeze when it comes to difficult or tedious tasks, you may even struggle with projects you like doing or don’t consciously feel anxious about.
People with ADHD don’t just experience task paralysis when it comes to work and house chores. Sometimes, you may have difficulty talking, thinking, or making choices because you’re overwhelmed or having difficulty thinking it through.
Types of ADHD paralysis
ADHD shutdown can affect your daily life in a number of different ways. For many people, it can lead to task freeze, where you put off important chores and projects because you feel completely unable to start. However, it can also affect your ability to think, act, and make decisions. Here are a few common types of ADHD paralysis:
- ADHD task paralysis: If you find it hard to initiate or complete projects, you may struggle with procrastination or task avoidance — no matter how long or urgent your to-do list is.
- ADHD choice paralysis: If you’re prone to overthinking, you may experience “analysis paralysis,” which can lead to difficulties with decision-making.
- ADHD mental paralysis: You may find it hard to think, speak, or move, especially if you’re feeling overstimulated or overwhelmed.
Understanding the type of ADHD paralysis you’re experiencing — whether it’s task, choice, or mental paralysis — can help you figure out your triggers and the root cause. This may make it easier for you to address and overcome your ADHD paralysis.
What are some examples of ADHD paralysis?
ADHD paralysis feels different to different people. While one person might exclusively experience task paralysis, others might experience mental paralysis. Some people experience a combination of the different types of ADHD paralysis. Below are some examples of ADHD paralysis:
- Struggling to choose what food to order because you’re anxious you’ll make the “wrong choice,” so you give up and eat nothing
- Having difficulty choosing a show to watch or a game to play due to a fear of not enjoying it and ending up choosing to do nothing
- Feeling unable to get out of bed, even though you’re looking forward to the day ahead
- Feeling overwhelmed in a social situation to the point that you struggle to talk
- Putting off a conversation with a loved one, even though it’s important
- Avoiding a simple task for weeks, even though it’ll only take a few minutes
- Scrolling through social media because you’re having a difficult time writing an important email
- Having a long to-do list but being unable to start because you’re dreading it, so you end up procrastinating
It’s not always easy to recognize ADHD paralysis in the moment. At the time, you might simply feel overstimulated, exhausted, or frustrated with yourself.
Learning to identify task paralysis can help you manage it better. When you notice yourself “freezing,” you can use coping strategies to address it directly.
What are the symptoms of task paralysis?
Since task paralysis is not a diagnosis or a clinical term in itself, there are no official symptoms. However, anecdotally, people with ADHD seem to experience a range of symptoms relating to task freeze. Common symptoms associated with ADHD task paralysis include:
- Often struggling with procrastination
- Overthinking when it comes to decision-making, leading to “analysis paralysis” and indecision
- Finding it hard to start or complete tasks, even when the task is theoretically simple
- Poor time management
- Difficulties with prioritizing tasks
- Procrastinating on projects, especially difficult and mundane tasks
- Experiencing brain fog (a lack of focus or mental clarity)
- Difficulties with problem-solving
- Feelings of being overwhelmed when it comes to certain projects, whether they’re boring tasks or activities you enjoy
When you’re feeling overwhelmed, you might also experience physical symptoms of stress. This can include headaches, muscle pain, and stomach issues.
It’s important to know that ADHD paralysis isn’t a choice, and it can be very frustrating for the person who is experiencing it.
Different people have different triggers when it comes to ADHD paralysis. Some people might find coping with mundane tasks or complex projects particularly difficult. Others might find themselves putting off tasks that are easy or enjoyable.
To outsiders, someone with ADHD may appear disorganized or lazy. It’s important to know that ADHD paralysis isn’t a choice, and it can be very frustrating for the person who is experiencing it.
What is the solution for ADHD paralysis?
Getting treatment for your ADHD might help mitigate the effects of task paralysis. Generally, treatment options for ADHD include therapy and medication. A licensed therapist specializing in ADHD can help you address your ADHD symptoms. Together, you can explore possible solutions. You don’t need an official ADHD diagnosis to make an appointment with a therapist.
Support for ADHD
ADHD medication may also help with executive functioning, according to research. Prescription medications for ADHD work by increasing norepinephrine and dopamine levels. These neurotransmitters are involved in important executive functions.
Depending on the cause of your ADHD freeze, certain coping strategies might also help. For example, if you notice you usually avoid tasks when you feel stressed and overwhelmed, you could experiment with different stress-relief techniques and mindfulness exercises.
Tips to help you overcome ADHD paralysis
With the right strategy, it’s possible to overcome ADHD paralysis. By working on your executive function skills and learning to identify task paralysis, you can improve your quality of life and boost your overall productivity. While there’s no universal quick fix for ADHD freeze, the following tips might help you:
- Identify your triggers: Your ADHD paralysis might be triggered by a range of issues, from stress and sensory overload to social anxiety. Learn to recognize what triggers you specifically, as your triggers won’t be the same as everyone else’s.
- Address those triggers: If sensory overload triggers you, consider working somewhere quieter and calmer. If it gets worse if you’re tired, make sure you get enough sleep. If you usually put off mundane tasks, find ways to make them more fun — for example, put on music or a podcast while doing admin tasks or cleaning your room.
- Try different productivity techniques: If a to-do list intimidates you, perhaps try a time-blocking method to plan your daily routine. Additionally, take tasks one baby step at a time. “Break down the task into smaller and more manageable steps, making a list of what needs to be done,” Preamplume suggests.
- Use time management tools: If you have time blindness or poor time management skills, it’s possible to work on this. Visual reminders, like a digital clock on your desk, can help you keep track of the passing of time. The Pomodoro technique is another technique that can sometimes be helpful in overcoming ADHD paralysis. This technique has you complete 25-minute periods of work followed by five-minute breaks for four cycles, followed by a longer break at the end.
- Have an accountability buddy: Some people may benefit from having an accountability partner or buddy to ensure they finish tasks. “Ask someone to keep you company while you do the task, or to help hold you accountable,” says Preamplume.
- Take care of yourself: Many people find that their ADHD symptoms get worse when they’re stressed. Try to manage stress in a healthy way. For example, you could try exercise, mindfulness, or breathing techniques.
- Write it out: Journaling can be a helpful way to cope with overthinking, especially if your brain is trying to process too much information at the same time. Writing out your feelings can help with problem-solving, indecision, and analysis paralysis.
- Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness helps you to live more in the present moment, which can allow the paralyzing emotions of anxiety and fear to dissipate as these emotions live in the future.
- Call in an expert: Consider speaking with a therapist who specializes in treating people with ADHD. They can help you learn more about ADHD and find ways to improve your executive functioning.
Lastly, it’s important to give yourself a break. ADHD paralysis can be frustrating. Many people with ADHD blame themselves for their executive dysfunction, which can affect their self-esteem.
Don’t beat yourself up over it. Getting stuck in a spiral of self-blame and negative self-talk doesn’t help anyone. Instead, try to practice self-compassion as you find a strategy that works for you.
Get support
ADHD paralysis can make your day-to-day life a challenge. For people with ADHD, task paralysis and difficulties with decision-making can be a common and frustrating experience.
Fortunately, there are many treatment options for ADHD. Therapy and medication might reduce your symptoms, which can improve your functioning. Practicing certain skills and coping methods can also help you cope with — and possibly overcome — ADHD paralysis.
Not sure where to start with accessing ADHD treatment? You can use our search tool to find a licensed mental health professional specializing in ADHD. Through our filters, you can look for a provider that offers therapy or medication management in your area who accepts your insurance.