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Juliah Berkowitz

(she/her)

Juliah Berkowitz, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$130/session
LCSW
3 years of experience
Virtual
Welcome! I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Pennsylvania with 5 years of experience working with female survivors of trauma and abuse. My passion lies in helping women build healthy relationships, eliminate toxicity from their lives, boost self-esteem, and heal from the deep impacts of trauma. My goal is for every client to come to a deeper understanding of themselves, and to leave therapy with practical skills intended to support them in sustaining their progress long term.

Richard McNutt

(he/him)

Richard McNutt, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$80/session
LPC
35 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
300 S Walnut Ln...
I have worked in the treatment since i was 36 and have 35 years of experience. My early experience was in the drug and alcohol and relapse prevention field. During that time i attended the Gestalt Institute in Cleveland, Ohio where I took 4 years of intense training. This lead me to find that therapy is not a method for me to figure out the client but a means for the client to gain greater self-awareness in facing their own life aspirations and struggles. I place focus on clients’ somatic awareness, especially breath, so being more in their body so they can try on new physical and intellectual styles in facing their world. I have a lot of knowledge about what is called the 12 step process and have melded together spirituality and religion in my own life. Prior to being a counselor/ therapist i taught school, painted steel bridges and other structures, and was a machinist at a large steel company, that like the many in our area have since closed their shops.

genevieve triana

(she/her)

genevieve triana, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$90/session
LCSW
12 years of experience
Virtual
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I graduated with my masters of social work in 2012 from Marywood University in Scranton Pennsylvania. I have worked with diverse populations in my practice and am most comfortable assisting individuals develop goals and plans to better understand and cope with daily struggles. I want my clients to understand that where they are isn’t where they have to be

Carla Storrs

Carla Storrs, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LCSW
8 years of experience
Virtual
I am a License Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Pennsylvania. I received my Masters from Case Western Reserve and have been practicing for 8 years. I am committed to empower and help people heal to become their best selves. I help young adults struggling with career stress and burnout become the best versions of themselves. My counseling style is a warm and interactive approach focusing on ineffective behaviors, habits and beliefs. I believe in taking a collaborative approach to help clients reach their goals.

Paula Jo Lynch

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Paula Jo Lynch, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPC
3 years of experience
Virtual
I am a clinical counselor and art therapist. I work within eclectic style to engage the client in an empathic and authentic way. I assist in helping the client find solutions that will work for them, and that they feel comfortable doing. Together, we try to heal the client and give them the tools to reduce depression centered around their past and the stress of the now and reduce anxiety of the future.

Andrea Karlunas

Andrea Karlunas, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LCSW
20 years of experience
Virtual
My name is Andrea and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have worked in the field for over twenty years with clients who experienced family trauma including physical abuse, sexual abuse, and domestic violence I am passionate about building healthy skills and healing which prevents clients from a fulfilled and healthy life. I have warm interactive style and gently challenge clients to move out of their comfort zone to heal from what no longer serves them.

Sascha Baello

Sascha Baello, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$120/session
LPC
10 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! My name is Sascha Baello. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP). I aim to help clients to reclaim the peace in their lives after struggling with C-PTSD and life issues resulting from narcissistic abuse and other forms of trauma. My passion centers around helping clients to find their inner strength to heal from these relationships, understand their experience, and empower them to move forward into a new, healthier life.

Sabrina Key

(she/her)

Sabrina Key, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LPC
25 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, my name is Sabrina Key. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor currently practicing in Pennsylvania. I received my master's in Counseling from Alvernia University. I have been working in the field for 28 years. I help clients at their level of need. I work with young and older adults ages 17 years to 70 + years old. Cancer Survivors, End of life emotional challenges, Forensic Anger and Substance Abuse population. Rapport building is the key to a successful therapeutic relationship. I have experienced and treated much of life on life's terms. I live my life to the fullest. I feel whole and complete when helping others.

Shira Stewart-King

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Shira Stewart-King, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$90/session
LPC
17 years of experience
Virtual
Hi, I’m Shira, and I want to congratulate you for taking the first step toward prioritizing your well-being. Over the years, I’ve seen how healing looks different for everyone. I’m happy to support you in your wellness journey. Whether you’re looking for emotional clarity, tools to navigate life’s ups and downs, or simply a safe space to heal, I combine practical, evidence-based methods with a holistic approach to help you find balance, clarity, and empowerment! I look forward to the opportunity work together to create deeper wellness, and the positive outcomes you’re looking for.

Edele Kloss

(she/her)

Edele Kloss, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$120/session
LPC
23 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! It's a pleasure to meet you! As a seasoned Masters Level Board-Certified Music Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor based in Pennsylvania, I bring over 20 years of experience working across diverse levels of care, including inpatient, residential, partial hospitalization, intensive outpatient, and outpatient settings. I am a strong advocate for the transformative power of therapy, and I commend you for taking the courageous step of seeking therapy. Understanding the vulnerability that comes with this process, my aim is to establish a safe, non-judgmental environment where you feel at ease exploring your thoughts. Building a strong, trusting relationship is crucial, and I am committed to listening and communicating openly with you. I believe it is important to provide my clients with the skills that they need to be able to manage their lives more than they were able to before counseling.

Erin King

(she/her)

Erin King, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$120/session
LCSW
5 years of experience
Virtual
I have 30 plus years of experience in the mental health field. I can function on an intellectual level but be very down-to-earth. I will meet you where you're at while helping you envision where you would like to go. I love the work of helping people reach their goals. I would love to partner with you on your journey.

Sean Burns

(he/him)

Sean Burns, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPC
6 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
102 East Street...
Hi, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Pennsylvania and Delaware, with a certification as a Clinical Trauma Professional. I have been in practice since 2018, after graduating from Millersville University with a Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology. I am passionate about empowering individuals to find their inner strength and resilience to tackle life's trials. My practice primarily focuses on children and adolescents, as well as, adults that experienced childhood trauma.

Sarah Kushnir

Sarah Kushnir, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LCSW
4 years of experience
Virtual
Hi, my name is Sarah Kushnir, I am a LCSW and have been working in mental health for the past decade. I believe in teaching skills to patients so they are well-equipped to be able to process their thoughts and feelings, to be able to thrive in their world. It is important to walk with the patient on their healing journey and allow them to be the guide for treatment.

Kelly L Brock

(she/her)

Kelly L Brock, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LCSW
10 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! My name is Kelly Brock and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Pennsylvania and also in Iowa. Maybe you are just feeling stuck, and don't know why? Or maybe you know why, but don't quite understand what tools to use or how to use them to get yourself to that next level up in self-understanding and comfort? I believe finding one's peace in life is a journey of exploration… Sometimes our human side tends to make the exploration in life's journey a tad bit complicated. When we know more about ourselves (and others)... we are just able to navigate life better!

Leslie Slagel

(she/her)

 Leslie Slagel, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$175/session
LPC
20 years of experience
Virtual
As a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years of diverse experience in mental health and addiction treatment, I bring both depth and dedication to my private practice. I specialize in working with individuals facing challenges related to addiction, trauma, intimate partner violence, grief and loss and low self-esteem. My approach is rooted in evidence-based and promising practices. I emphasize compassion and active listening to create a therapeutic environment where clients feel empowered and supported. In our work together, you can expect a collaborative, respectful process tailored to your unique needs and goals. My commitment is to help you build self-awareness and resilience, providing you with tools for meaningful, lasting change.

Merissa Lindsay

Merissa Lindsay, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$80/session
LCSW
11 years of experience
Virtual
I am licensed in Pennsylvania with 11 years of professional therapy experience. However, I have been working in the social work field for 17 consecutive years. I have experience working with clients who have mild to severe mental illness via my work in inpatient hospitals, group homes, case management, behavioral health insurance management, elementary, middle and high school settings. I have spent the past 11 years of my career providing counseling services to women and children in an Outpatient Therapy setting. I continue to provide in person Outpatient Therapy services on a fulltime basis in addition to my platform on Better Help. I have many years of experience with helping clients manage stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, & motivation, self esteem, and confidence. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.

Jackie Bollinger

(she/her)

Jackie Bollinger, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LCSW
19 years of experience
Virtual
IMMEDIATE OPENINGS! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Pennsylvania, holding a Master’s in Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh. With over 19 years of experience, I am dedicated to supporting individuals as they navigate through challenging moments in their lives. My goal is to create a safe, non-judgmental space where clients feel heard, valued, and empowered to work through difficulties that may arise. Throughout my career, I have worked with individuals facing a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, trauma, suicidal ideation, ADHD, stress management, grief, anger management, and life transitions. I believe that healing is a journey, and my role is to provide guidance and support as you explore and address your unique challenges.

Melody Dascanio

(she/her)

Melody Dascanio, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$95/session
LPC
12 years of experience
Virtual
Welcome! I'm Melody Dascanio and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I hold a Masters degree in Professional Counseling and I also happen to have a Bachelors of Music degree. I specialize in helping survivors of domestic violence, narcissistic abuse, and adult children of emotionally immature parents. I am certified as a Level 2 Complex Trauma Professional, a Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician, and a Personality Disorder Clinician. I am specially trained in EMDR, Hypnotherapy, Pathological Love Relationships, Personality Disorders and Narcissistic Abuse. Prior to opening my own practice, I founded the therapy department for a non-profit Domestic Violence Organization; creating practices, procedures, program assessment, staff training, and the therapeutic curriculum for survivors of domestic violence. I am a frequent guest speaker at conferences, facilitating workshops on Trauma Informed Care, Domestic Violence, and Trauma Interventions. In our work together, you are the expert of your story, and your strengths will help you overcome the obstacles ahead. My role is in helping you realize your power and supporting you through the healing journey. I'm humbled by each person that allows me to be a part of their journey and look forward to working with you! In my free time, I enjoy taking care of my cats, dogs, parrots, and horses. As an semi-professional musician I continue to enjoy playing piano, clarinet, flute, and violin. I am proud to be a bass clarinetist for the North Pittsburgh Symphonic Band and the Musician's Concert Band. I also enjoy bluegrass music and sang family's bluegrass band "Keep Off the Grass" for many years prior to our banjo player, my talented father, passing away. My friends describe me as unique, humorous and quirky; all qualities that I am proud to incorporate into the way I provide therapy.

Julisa Holmes

(she/her)

Julisa Holmes, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$140/session
LPC
1 year of experience
Virtual
Hi, I’m Julisa. I am a masters level Licensed Professional Counselor, practicing remotely in Rhode Island and Pennsylvania. As a Philadelphia native and person of color, I am driven by my desire to provide healthy representation of breaking generational trauma. I aim to get rid of stigmas related to seeking professional help. I am passionate about using my 11 years of experience to help clients feel genuinely seen, without judgement. I work with adult individuals and couples on various issues including anxiety, depression, PTSD, bi-polar disorders, relationship concerns, body positivity, LGBTQIA+ concerns, women's issues, and life transitions.

Felicia Williams

Felicia Williams, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LCSW
14 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in the state of Pennsylvania. I have over 12 years in clinical practice working with a range of persons from adolescents to senior adults and veterans in a variety of settings. I aim to support people in navigating periods of uncertainty, transition, and change. I have experience in providing therapy for a variety of concerns including anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relational issues, and life stressors.

Patricia Whitaker

Patricia Whitaker, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$75/session
LPC
25 years of experience
Virtual
Patricia career expands well over 25 years of working in the Behavioral Health and Human Service field, working in various Drug and Alcohol programs /Mental Health Field (In the York Lancaster and Chester County areas). She earned master's degree in human services 2002, License Professional Counselor 2003 NCC Nationally Certified As of 2024 still provides Mental Health Drug and Alcohol, Couples, And Trauma related issues.

Christine E. Murray, Ph.D.

(she/her)

Christine E. Murray, Ph.D., LMFT - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LMFT
23 years of experience
Virtual
I'm Christine Murray (she/her/hers), the Founder of Start Here Counseling & Consulting, PLLC. I'm on a mission to promote mental health, healthy relationships, and thriving communities. I have over two decades of experience working in the mental health field. Based in Greensboro, North Carolina, I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) in North Carolina, as well as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in my home state of Pennsylvania. My counseling practice specializes primarily in working with individuals who are on a journey toward healing and growth following unhealthy, toxic, and/or abusive relationships in any area of life, especially survivors of intimate partner violence / domestic violence. I also work with a limited number of clients who are navigating general life transitions and struggles. Although I work primarily with individuals, as a trained marriage and family therapist, I also work with couples and families.

Michelle Miller

Michelle Miller, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$95/session
LPC
9 years of experience
Virtual
Your story matters. Your life has value. You are worth it. Seeking help through life's difficulties can be daunting. It can, at times, also be met with some disapproval by others who don't understand the position that you are in or the struggles you face. I want to acknowledge your bravery in taking this step to prioritize your mental health. It isn't easy, but I can assure you it will be worth it. A little about me: I am passionate about helping others seek out health and wholeness in their lives. I currently practice as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Indiana. In my 8 years of clinical experience, I have worked in multiple settings (community based mental health, in-home therapy for adults and children, outpatient adult & pediatric therapy) and have experience with a variety of mental health concerns. These include: depression, anxiety, eating disorders, ADHD, ASD, substance abuse, trauma, and more. I look forward to meeting you and hearing your story!

Kelly Ace

(she/her)

Kelly Ace, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$120/session
LPC
20 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! I get that life is complicated and traumatic experiences make it more so. I have experience helping clients heal and grow as they navigate challenges related to sexual trauma, disability, and mental health. Throughout my career, I have worked with children, teens, and adults from diverse backgrounds as they follow a path of healing after sexual abuse. I have also worked with many individuals whose intellectual, developmental, and physical disabilities influenced their sexuality and mental health. I am particularly interested in helping individuals whose concerns relate to: * Sexual trauma * Online victimization/exploitation * Discovering a loved one has been abused or has abused another * Emotional, social, and sexual concerns influenced by illness/disability * Caregiving * Vicarious/secondary trauma and professional burnout

Angela Fucci

(she/her)

Angela Fucci, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$55/session
LCSW
9 years of experience
Virtual
Hi, I’m Angela. I am a Board Certified Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in helping individuals cope with the everyday stressors of life, reaching their full potential and seeing themselves in a new light. I have provided therapy to individuals from children to the elderly. I also have experience providing therapy to adults with an Intellectual Disability and have used modified treatment strategies to work effectively with that population. I use a strength based approach and encourage you to talk about whatever it is you would like to work on to set the pace for your sessions and develop your treatment goals. Whether you're dealing with feeling overwhelmed, relationship issues or cycles of anxiety and depression, I am here to help. Seeking therapy can feel scary but you are making the right decision. You deserve a safe space to express yourself, reflect, heal and grow. In our sessions together, I will meet you with compassion and evidence-based techniques so you can identify and overcome any barriers that you feel are holding you back. We can work together!

Jim Rankin

(he/him)

Jim Rankin, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$75/session
LCSW
15 years of experience
Virtual
Hi, I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I graduated from Duquesne University and then Marywood University. As a counselor/therapist I work with adults as they navigate the anxieties of life and relationships. I help persons identify and assess the thinking/thoughts that bother them and interrupt their relationships with their family or at their work. I have studied and used different therapeutic approaches to support persons at different stages of growth.

Ronia Arabatlian

(she/her)

Ronia Arabatlian, LCSW - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
18 years of experience
Virtual
"If you've just landed on my page, I invite you to pause and take a deep breath. In this moment, drop into your body and notice where you’re holding tension or tightness. This work can be hard, but you've already taken the first step on your healing journey. You are prioritizing self-care and beginning to put your needs first." "I specialize in working with individuals navigating grief, loss, life transitions, infertility struggles, and feelings of disconnection. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or uncertain about your path forward, I provide a supportive space to help you process your emotions, regain clarity, and rediscover a sense of peace." "Grief shows up in many ways—whether from losing a loved one, a shift in identity, infertility, or unexpected life transitions. I have come to understand grief as a daily practice of riding its waves. Over time, I have found clarity and healing in this process, and I bring this understanding into my work with clients." "As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I help individuals process loss, explore unresolved emotions, and move toward healing in a way that honors their unique experience. Together, we’ll create a space where transformation can unfold at your own pace." "You don’t have to navigate this alone. If you’re ready to begin, I invite you to reach out. Let’s take the next step together."

Sophia Harbove, MS, LPC, CAADC, NCC, CCPT

(she/her)

Sophia Harbove, MS, LPC, CAADC, NCC, CCPT, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPC
Virtual
Hi there, I'm Sophia. I know it can be scary and uncomfortable asking for help; I'm here to be a guide as you maneuver through this interesting journey we call life. I can offer a safe space where we can look at the parts and pieces you don't share with others and put them back together again. Becoming more aware of how we perceive and interact with the world and those around us can be challenging but I am here to help find a way. I am passionate about providing a compassionate and nonjudgemental experience; I want to meet you where you are and provide a framework we can work towards in effort to bring about lasting change. Whether you feel overwhelmed by life's challenges or want to get into a healthier frame of mind, I'm here to help.

Yanira Briceno

(she/her)

Yanira Briceno, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$120/session
LPC
15 years of experience
Virtual
Many clients come to work with me at a time in their lives when they feel stuck, lost, or unsure due to trauma, intense loss, or a major life transition. During these times, the people in our lives may not always know or understand how to help. This can be such a painful place to be but just know that you don't have to go thru this alone. My expertise is in working with survivors of childhood abuse and domestic violence. Helping people comes naturally to me. I've also been confronted with difficult challenges and struggles in life where I understand how overwhelming it could feel to take that first step in seeking help. If this work has taught me anything it's taught me this: Change takes time and is a process, but there is more hope, possibility, and power when we work together to bring about change. My approach is simple-I will meet you where you are and together we can start your journey towards positive change and personal growth. If you think we will be a good fit please reach out to schedule a consultation-I am looking forward to working with you and helping you on your journey towards personal growth.

Holli Hudson

(she/her)

Holli Hudson, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$105/session
LPC
11 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
109 E Locust St...
Hello, my name is HOLLI, I came into this field to provide others with the comfort and support they need to overcome past and current trauma. I have eleven years' experience in the field and worked with families and couples for 8 of the eleven years. Providing clients with a nonjudgmental space and empathic listening is of most importance. It is important to meet others where they are and provide them the comfort and support to move through their own journey. I myself come from a long history of trauma and I am here to help. I offer a wide range of therapy modalities, coping skills and techniques to help process through history of events and ongoing stress that may continue to impact us daily.

Liss Rinker

(she/her)

Liss Rinker, LPC - Pennsylvania Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LPC
7 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
1011 North Broo...
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I hold licenses in Pennsylvania and New Jersey and specialty certification as a Certified Advanced Drug & Alcohol Counselor and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. I am a firm believer in everything that happens creates the person. I am a whole life counselor and work with people to explore what it would take to move past the difficult times in life. I take the time to get to know my clients and have many clients who have been with me for years. That doesn't mean someone will see me every week for the rest of their life. It means client know I am available when they have need. I do have clients who have seen me weekly for years not because they are dependent on me but because they have found benefit in processing their life regularly. I have had a successful personal practice for years and can offer clients the space and reverence to unpack the most unpleasant things to reorder them in a way they no longer can cause harm as they once did. There is no perfect childhood and it is likely families do the best they can and it may not have filled the needs of their child. I am happy to take as much time as needed to work through the problem as you understand it.
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