Hi! I'm Megan Cole, a licensed clinical social worker practicing in North Carolina. I received a master's degree in social work from UNC Chapel Hill in 2008. With many years of experience in healthcare, specifically hospice and serious illness care, I specialize in working with those who are coping with serious or life-limiting illnesses, individuals coping with caregiver stress and anxiety, anticipatory grief, and grief counseling after a loss. I also have extensive experience in the arenas of adoption, infertility, miscarriage, and pregnancy loss.
In our first session, we'll spend some time getting to know each other. You need to know that we will be a good fit for each other, so I hope that you'll feel comfortable asking me questions to help you feel comfortable. We will get some background information established, then we will spend time talking about what has led you to seek therapy at this time in your life, and what you hope to accomplish in our work together. The questions I ask, the concerns you bring, and the goals you have will help us create your individualized treatment plan that will serve as our roadmap to your wellness.
The decision to seek therapy is a sign of tremendous strength and vulnerability. I consider it an honor to be chosen to work with each client I serve to help them overcome the thoughts, feelings, and symptoms that are holding them back. With many years of healthcare experience, and particularly experience in hospice, grief, chronic/ serious illness, as well as with infertility, adoption, and pregnancy loss, I feel I am uniquely able to provide support to people in some of the darkest, most overwhelming, and isolating times of our lives. I know that in these valleys of life it can be hard to believe that things will ever get better-- but I am here to help show you your own incredible inner strength and capacity for growth, hope, and healing.
Understanding your attachment history, especially the early relationships you had with your parents or caregivers, can give us valuable insights into how you see yourself and relate to others. When we explore your attachment style, it helps you become more aware of your emotional responses and how you form and maintain relationships. This awareness can be really helpful in managing anxiety and depression, healing from past experiences like childhood trauma, and improving your current relationships. By recognizing your attachment style, we can work together to build healthier connections and support your emotional well-being.
I believe that we can make great strides in improving symptoms of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem through encouraging self-compassion, and reducing self-criticism. In Compassion-Focused interventions, we work together to recognize and soothe your painful emotions through teaching mindfulness and self-compassion exercises. We work together to explore the root causes of your negative beliefs about yourself, and then reframe them with kindness, love, and understanding. In so doing, we are able to increase your emotional resilience and help you have healthier relationships with others.
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy can be particularly helpful for people struggling with anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, and other conditions. CBT helps challenge our thoughts and fears by helping us learn healthier ways of thinking and coping with difficult situations, feelings, thoughts, and memories. CBT can also be helpful for people who are struggling with communication and conflict within relationships, people with low self-esteem or self-worth, and people who are coping with chronic stress.