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Essy Knopf

LICSW, 3 years of experience

Authentic
Open-minded
Solution oriented
Virtual
Next available on

About me

I'm Essy, a licensed therapist and coach who works best with folks who feel like outsiders in a world built for sameness. I support neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ adults navigating identity, trauma, burnout, and the pressure to mask or overperform. With equal parts warmth and real talk, I help clients make sense of their story, rewrite the rules they’ve been handed, and build a life that actually fits.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Our first session is all about getting real, not performing. You don’t need to have it all figured out. We'll talk about what’s bringing you in, what’s feeling stuck or heavy, and what you’re hoping will shift. I’ll offer a grounding presence, maybe a reframe or two, and we’ll co-create a space where you can start showing up as your full self: no masks, no fixing, just clarity and curiosity.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I’m deeply human in the room: compassionate, curious, and not afraid to name what others avoid. My strengths lie in offering warm, grounded presence alongside honest reflections and big-picture insights. I blend evidence-based tools with real-world relevance, integrating psychoeducation and coaching-style feedback to help you get unstuck. Clients often say I make them feel both deeply seen and gently challenged in the best way.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I’m here for neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ folks who are tired of having to explain themselves, manage other people’s discomfort, or “tone it down.” My clients are often deep thinkers, high feelers, and meaning-makers who’ve been pathologized, dismissed, or misunderstood. Many are carrying the weight of complex trauma, identity struggles, executive dysfunction, or people-pleasing burnout. If you’re craving a space where you don’t have to mask, where your sharp insights and contradictions are welcomed—not pathologized—I’ve got you.

Specialties

Top specialties

ADHD
Autism
LGBTQ

Other specialties

Chronic Illness
Coping Skills
Grief
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD

I identify as

LGBTQ
Man
Person of Color (POC)
White

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)
Elders (65 and above)

My treatment methods

Strength-Based

I draw from my lived experience as an autistic, ADHD, LGBTQ+ therapist to apply a strength-based approach in my practice, focusing on affirming clients' unique identities and empowering them to leverage their strengths for growth and resilience.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

California
Maine
Massachusetts
New Hampshire

Accepts

Aetna
All Savers
AvMed
Carelon Behavioral Health (Commercial)
L.A. Care PASC-SEIU
L.A. Care Covered
L.A. Care Covered Direct
Cash - $99 per session
EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum
Golden Rule
Harvard Pilgrim
Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare
UnitedHealthcare/Optum
Optum
OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions
Oscar
Oxford
Surest (formerly Bind)
Tufts Health
United Medical Resources
UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance
UnitedHealthcare Shared Services
UnitedHealthcare StudentResources
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