Heather Freed

LCSW, 16 years of experience
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
VirtualAvailable

I’m Heather Freed, LCSW, founder of Freed Minds. As a therapist, former executive, wife, and mom, I understand how easy it is for capable women to lose themselves in responsibility, relationships, and the pressure to keep it all together. I specialize in helping high-responsibility women move beyond burnout, overfunctioning, and self-neglect through holistic, trauma-informed therapy that supports healing of mind, body, and spirit. My goal is to help you build a life that feels more peaceful, grounded, and true to who you are.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

The first session is a chance for us to take a deeper look at the full picture of what is bringing you to therapy. We’ll talk through your current concerns, relevant history, relationship patterns, stress load, and the ways you may have been coping or holding everything together for too long. Many of the women I work with are used to being the strong one, so this first session is also a space where you do not have to perform, have it all figured out, or explain yourself perfectly. My goal is to help you feel comfortable, understood, and supported from the start. I take a holistic, trauma-informed view of your well-being, so we may explore not only emotional and mental health, but also nervous system patterns, relational dynamics, lifestyle factors, and, when meaningful to you, spirituality, purpose, and values. This helps me understand the deeper roots of burnout, overfunctioning, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and self-neglect rather than focusing only on symptoms. By the end of the session, we will have a clearer understanding of what you are carrying, what patterns may be keeping you stuck, and what support will be most helpful moving forward. We’ll begin shaping a thoughtful, personalized plan for our work together, including a rough sense of treatment focus, session frequency, and next steps.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

One of the strengths I bring to therapy is the ability to hold both depth and practicality at the same time. I help clients slow down enough to understand what is happening beneath the surface, while also identifying clear, meaningful shifts that can support change in everyday life. My style is warm, grounded, and deeply attentive. I listen for patterns, protective strategies, relational dynamics, and nervous system cues that may be shaping how you feel and function. This allows me to help clients make sense of their experience in a way that feels clarifying rather than overwhelming. I also take a whole-person approach. Rather than focusing only on symptoms, I consider the emotional, relational, physical, and spiritual dimensions of your life when relevant. This helps therapy feel more personal, more thoughtful, and more aligned with what you actually need. Clients often tell me they feel deeply understood in our work together. I bring compassion, insight, and gentle honesty, while also helping clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-awareness, and more sustainable ways of living.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I’m best positioned to serve high-responsibility women who look capable and put-together on the outside but feel exhausted, unseen, and responsible for everything on the inside. Many are professionals, helpers, mothers, and partners struggling with burnout, overfunctioning, people-pleasing, perfectionism, resentment, emotional loneliness, and nervous system dysregulation. They are often ready for deeper work that helps them understand long-standing patterns, build healthier boundaries, reconnect with themselves, and create a more peaceful, meaningful, and sustainable way of living.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Other specialties

ADHD

Anger Management

Coping Skills

I identify as

Woman

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)

Licensed in

Illinois

Accepts cash

$125/session

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

My approach to IFS-informed therapy, or parts work, helps clients understand the different sides of themselves with more clarity and compassion. Many of the women I work with have a part that keeps pushing, a part that people-pleases, a part that overthinks, a part that feels resentful, and a part that is simply exhausted. Rather than seeing these responses as flaws, I help clients understand them as protective patterns that developed for a reason. In our work together, we explore these different parts gently and without judgment. This can help you better understand why you keep repeating certain patterns, feel pulled in different directions, or struggle to respond to yourself in a more supportive way. Over time, parts work helps create more inner awareness, self-compassion, and choice. Instead of feeling run by old protective patterns, you can begin relating to yourself from a more grounded, calm, and connected place.

Somatic

My approach to somatic therapy is grounded, gentle, and trauma-informed. I help clients pay attention to how stress, emotion, and past experiences may be showing up in the body through tension, shutdown, overwhelm, numbness, restlessness, or chronic activation. Rather than staying only at the level of thoughts, somatic work helps us understand what your nervous system has been carrying and how your body may be responding to long-standing patterns of pressure, overfunctioning, people-pleasing, or emotional pain. In session, this may include building awareness of body sensations, identifying signs of activation or collapse, practicing grounding, slowing down emotional overwhelm, and learning how to support more regulation and safety in the body. My style is not rigid or overly intense. I use somatic work in a way that feels collaborative, practical, and paced to your capacity. For many clients, this becomes an important part of healing because insight alone is not always enough when the body has been living in stress for a long time.

Relational

My relational approach focuses on helping clients understand the patterns they repeat in connection with others and the deeper needs, wounds, and protective strategies underneath those patterns. Many of the women I work with are used to being the strong one in relationships. They may over-give, over-function, avoid conflict, struggle to ask for what they need, feel resentment, or feel emotionally lonely even in close relationships. Relational therapy helps us look at how your early experiences, attachment patterns, and current relationships may be shaping the way you relate today. Together, we explore patterns around boundaries, communication, emotional responsibility, conflict, reciprocity, and self-abandonment. My goal is to help you build more honest, connected, and mutual relationships, while also strengthening your relationship with yourself. This work is especially helpful for clients who want to stop repeating exhausting dynamics and begin relating from a place of greater clarity, self-trust, and emotional balance.

Compassion Focused

My approach to compassion-focused therapy helps clients relate to themselves with more understanding, gentleness, and emotional safety. Many of the women I work with are highly self-critical and used to pushing through, holding it all together, and expecting more from themselves no matter how depleted they feel. Over time, that inner pressure can fuel burnout, perfectionism, shame, people-pleasing, and difficulty resting or receiving support. In our work together, compassion-focused therapy helps soften the harsh inner voice and build a more supportive relationship with yourself. This does not mean lowering your standards or avoiding responsibility. It means learning how to meet yourself with greater kindness, honesty, and care so change can happen from a place of support rather than self-attack. For many clients, this becomes an important part of healing because lasting growth is often harder when your inner world is driven by criticism, fear, or pressure.

, 74 ratings

8 ratings with written reviews

February 4, 2026

Heather is a compassionate listener. She listens with her heart and listens to be able to understand you. Her questions are not intrusive but grounding.

Verified client, age 45-54
Review shared after session 1 with Heather

October 7, 2025

Heather is amazing, she listens so well, especially when all you do is talk, I could have kept talking for hours and she just sat there and listened, it was extremely helpful and she even gave me some stuff to work on until next appointment 1000% recommend her!

Verified client, age 25-34
Review shared after session 1 with Heather

October 7, 2025

I felt very comfortable with Heather. It was very emotional on my end and she was very kind. I look forward to our next appointment. Thank you.

Verified client, age 55-64
Review shared after session 1 with Heather