LMFT, 4 years of experience
I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapy (LMFT) providing virtual sessions in the state of Tennessee. I have been married to my wife for 10 years we have 3 amazing kids. My specialties are: Helping clients overcome Depression, Relationship Issues & Parenting. In each of these treatment areas are years of personal experience. My parents divorced when I was 10 years old and I struggled with depression from ages 15-25. I know the joy that comes from overcoming struggles and I would like to help you win battles in your life.
The first session is a time for us to get acquainted with each other to see if we are a good fit to work together. It is important that you feel confident in your therapist in order for good work to be done. We will discuss the initial reasons why you are seeking out therapy and discuss your individualized treatment progression.
I walk through the fire with my clients. I do not ask my clients to do things I am not willing to do myself. Since I have started working as a therapist I have lost 60lbs, become a better husband and a more active and engaged father. I genuinely enjoy my profession because it is a daily reminder for me to keep improving my own life as my clients are working hard to do.
I am best trained to work with young heterosexual couples/clients around the ages of 18-40 years old. In my youth I struggled with depression and suicidal thinking for many years, but I was able to overcome that fight. Now, I have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids and I understand the struggles of marriage and what it takes to have a successful relationship.
Thoughts and actions are a collaborative relationship. If you feel negative about starting something you are less likely to start. If you start something you may learn it was not as bad as you thought and you may continue. Learning to have control over your thoughts will lead to more positive action and growth in your life.
As a man that has been married for 10 years and has 3 children I understand the importance of healthy communication and honesty within the couple. The husband and wife relationship is the cornerstone that a child will understand the world and will learn from the example shown to them.
I do not view therapy as "I am the expert so you need to just listen to me." Therapy is a collaborative effort between the therapist and the client. You know your life better than I do, and I am here to be a nonjudgmental 3rd party to help facilitate change. You have more strength and power than you currently believe and I am here to help you become as strong as possible.