LPC, 5 years of experience
New to Grow
Hello! I’m Danielle LaPrade, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Connecticut and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Rhode Island. My approach is rooted in practicality and compassion, helping children, teens, and adults build resilience and create healthier lives. During the week, my work as a salaried school therapist with younger children (Kindergarten through Second Grade) provides me with deep, hands-on experience in child development and family dynamics. My Therapy Style I provide support to children, teens, and adults through flexible, tailored sessions. I specialize in: Parent-Coaching and Child Interactive Therapy: Ensuring remote sessions are enjoyable and beneficial through psychoeducation, role-play, and real-time application of skills tailored to your family's needs. Adult and Women's Issues: Offering dedicated support for individual challenges, life transitions, and mental health. Areas of Focus and Trauma Expertise I have significant experience supporting individuals and families dealing with complex challenges, including trauma and its lasting effects. I specialize in working with clients impacted by: Narcissistic Abuse and Domestic Violence/Abuse recovery. Depression and Toxic Stress. Challenges specific to Teens (self-harm, suicidal ideation, bullying, relationships). General relationship difficulties and life transitions. I am dedicated to helping you create a safe, supportive, and balanced life. I really look forward to meeting you!
🧭 What to Expect in Our First Session The first session is focused on building a safe connection, understanding your unique situation, and creating a path forward. 🔑 Our Goals for Session One: Safety and Comfort: We will start with a warm welcome and a quick review of confidentiality and logistics to ensure you feel secure and informed. Getting to Know You: You will have time to share what brought you to therapy. We will discuss your current challenges (whether for yourself, your child, or your family) and review your relevant history. Collaborative Goal Setting: We will work together to define what success looks like for you. We will leave the session with clear, initial steps and a plan for our future work. For Families: The first session is often dedicated to the parents/caregivers to gather essential history and create a secure plan before the child fully engages in the therapeutic process. The goal is for you to walk away feeling heard, understood, and hopeful about the progress we can make together.
💪 My Greatest Strengths as a Therapist My practice is built on a foundation of empathy, practical application, and dedication to safety. The strengths I bring to our work together include: Practical, Skill-Based Focus: I don't just talk about problems; I teach actionable coping strategies and provide the tools you need to see real change outside of our sessions. This is especially true in Parent-Coaching and Child Interactive Therapy, where we use psychoeducation and role-play to apply skills immediately. Expertise in Complex Trauma: I possess significant experience and training in helping individuals and families heal from trauma, domestic violence, and narcissistic abuse. My focus is on creating a secure, non-judgmental space for recovery. Developmental Insight: As a school therapist working with young children (K-2), I have a deep understanding of child development and family dynamics. This background allows me to tailor treatment to the exact stage of life for children, teens, and adults. Approachability and Warmth: I strive to be genuinely inviting and accessible. I know starting therapy is a big step, and I prioritize building a strong, comfortable, and safe therapeutic relationship from our very first meeting.
1. 👨👩👧👦 Families with Young Children Profile: Parents seeking tools for managing a young child's (K-2 and preschool age) challenging behaviors, anxiety, or difficulties adjusting to school/family transitions. Key Interest: Parent-Coaching and Child Interactive Therapy (PCIT-informed models) to improve the parent-child relationship and reduce conflict at home. Why You're Ideal: Your background as a salaried school therapist in K-2 gives you direct, current insight into the challenges of this age group and the school environment, making you highly credible to parents. 2. 💔 Survivors of Relational Trauma Profile: Adults, particularly women, who are dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse or domestic violence/abuse. Key Interest: A safe, non-judgmental space to process trauma, rebuild self-esteem, set boundaries, and address associated symptoms like depression and toxic stress. Why You're Ideal: Your explicit experience in these sensitive, complex areas means clients searching specifically for trauma-informed recovery will see you as a knowledgeable and specialized resource. 3. 🧠 Teens in Crisis Profile: Adolescents and their families navigating issues like self-harm, suicidal ideation, severe bullying, or overwhelming relationship difficulties. Key Interest: Direct, compassionate intervention, and practical strategies to manage intense emotions and increase safety, along with support for the parents. Why You're Ideal: You have experience with the highest-risk behaviors in this age group, signaling a capability to handle serious mental health crises. 4. 😔 Adults Seeking Individual Support Profile: Individuals, often women, grappling with depression, anxiety, life transitions, or difficulties in their current relationships (unrelated to abuse, though your trauma skills are beneficial). Key Interest: Practical, goal-oriented therapy to manage symptoms of depression, improve communication, and gain skills for greater growth and connection. Why You're Ideal: Your skills in psychoeducation and practical application are very appealing to adults who want more than just talk therapy—they want concrete tools.
🧠 My Therapeutic Approach: CBT and Eclectic Focus My style is highly collaborative and rooted in evidence-based practices, primarily Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), delivered through an overall Eclectic orientation. This means I tailor our work to your specific needs while focusing on proven, practical techniques. How We Will Work Together: Deep Listening & Validation: The first and most critical step is ensuring you feel completely heard and safe. I will listen intently as you share your experiences. Exploring Thinking Patterns: We will search for the "evident part" behind your strong feelings. We will challenge and explore negative thinking patterns—such as "stinkin' thinkin'," catastrophic thinking, or fortune telling—that lead to distress. Psychoeducation and Application: I provide psychoeducation on the core principles of how your thoughts influence your feelings and behaviors. You will receive practical homework to help you self-assess and track these thoughts in your daily life. Building New Confidence: We will use the new, objective evidence we uncover to build a more open and confident personal life. By lowering your emotional guards, you'll feel better internally, and your friends and social circle will notice the difference in your newfound confidence. My ultimate goal is to provide you with the tools to become your own therapist.
👨👩👧👦 My Approach to Family Therapy Effective family treatment is about more than just talking or listening; it's about actively changing the patterns that keep you stuck. While psychoeducation is the "tip of the iceberg" for understanding the problem, our work dives into the deep waters of your family's daily interactions. As an Eclectic/Systemic Therapist, I draw upon the most effective models to target two main areas: 1. Structure: Clarifying Roles and Boundaries I utilize principles from Structural Family Therapy to address who is doing what in your family. If there's chaos or conflict, we examine the underlying organization, boundaries, and hierarchy. Key Techniques: We may use Enactment (having you interact naturally in session) to observe the process, allowing me to coach you toward creating stronger, clearer boundaries and roles that bring stability. 2. Strategy: Breaking Negative Cycles I incorporate Strategic Family Therapy principles to quickly interrupt the self-defeating communication patterns and cycles that maintain your difficulties. Key Techniques: I may reframe a problem to help your family see it differently, or give specific directives (homework) to break a negative routine, allowing the family to behave in new, healthier ways. My goal is to provide your family with the precise tools and interventions needed to reorganize, communicate effectively, and experience lasting, positive systemic change.
🤝 Conjoint Sessions: Healing Together While the initial intake may be conducted with parents alone, I frequently utilize conjoint sessions—bringing the child and parent together—when it offers the most therapeutic benefit. These sessions are strategically used in key situations: Bridging Disagreements: When parents and children are unable to see eye-to-eye, conjoint sessions provide a structured, safe space to improve mutual understanding and communication. Trauma Navigation: In instances where trauma has occurred, these sessions offer crucial, shared support, helping both the child and parent navigate the emotional impact and align on the most appropriate treatment path for healing. This approach ensures that healing is a collaborative, family-wide effort.
💎 DBT: Managing Instability and Intense Emotions I utilize Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) as a highly effective intervention for individuals—children, teens, and adults—who struggle with impulsivity, self-harm, and reactive behavior that leads to unpredictable states of instability. This approach is particularly beneficial for those experiencing symptoms related to Borderline Personality Traits, Bipolar Disorder, DMDD, or patterns of codependency and intense emotional dysregulation. How We Apply DBT: TIP and Chain Analysis In my sessions, DBT is practical and active. We focus on developing immediate coping skills to manage emotional crises: TIP Skills Integration: We often begin sessions with an interaction using a sensory stimulus (such as ice or stress balls) to ensure the person utilizes rapid coping skills to regulate their nervous system. Chain Analysis: We then deeply engage in Chain Analysis, a core DBT tool. This technique helps the person systematically break down the sequence of events, thoughts, feelings, and actions that led to a high-risk behavior (like self-harm or suicidal ideation). This breakdown reveals the exact points where skillful intervention could have occurred. In conjoint sessions, parents are often deeply involved in supporting the person through these tasks, reinforcing DBT's fundamental value: skill-building, validation, and emotional regulation to create a life worth living.