Bithynia Abarca

LMFT, 8 years of experience

Warm
Empowering
Authentic
Virtual
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About me

Welcome! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with eight years of experience, and I am deeply passionate about the work I do. Throughout my career, I have worked in both nonprofit settings and private practice, earning a reputation for building meaningful, long-term relationships with my clients. Many clients return to me when they decide to re-engage with therapy, which speaks to the trust and connection we previously established. I specialize in supporting individuals navigating daily stressors, the challenges of past trauma, or relational distress. While I have worked with clients from diverse backgrounds, I am most frequently sought out by Latinas and individuals with a Christian background.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Meeting someone new can feel a little daunting, so my first priority is to create a warm and welcoming space where you feel safe and comfortable. I’ll take time to get to know you by asking questions about your history, experiences, and what brings you to therapy, while also giving you the chance to learn more about me—my background, the tools I use, and what you can expect from our work together. My goal is to help you feel confident in your decision to work together so we can ultimately collaborate to create a personalized plan that supports your growth and well-being.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I bring a relational and compassionate approach to therapy, with my top priority being to build a secure and trusting connection with you. I want you to feel safe and confident to bring anything you’re experiencing into our sessions, knowing you’ll be met with kindness, support, and without judgment. It’s an honor to walk alongside you on what can be one of the most profound journeys of self-discovery and personal growth.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

The clients I feel most aligned with and enjoy working with are those who approach therapy with curiosity and readiness. They are eager to gain deeper self-awareness, understand how they navigate the world around them, and are open to making healthy, constructive changes to enhance their quality of life and build more fulfilling relationships.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression

Other specialties

Couples Counseling
Grief
Life Transitions
Parenting
Peer Relationships
Phobias
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD

I identify as

Christian
Hispanic / Latinx
Person of Color (POC)
Woman

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)
Elders (65 and above)

My treatment methods

Integrative

I believe it is essential to empower clients and involve them actively in their own therapeutic process. Since each client, couple, and family has unique needs, I draw from a variety of proven techniques, blending them to tailor to the client's goals. Together, we create a personalized plan designed to help foster lasting health and growth.

Attachment-based

Surveys reveal that over half of adults experience insecure attachments stemming from early childhood, which can significantly hinder their ability to enhance their quality of life, particularly when their environment and relationships feel unsafe. My primary focus with every client is to cultivate a safe and welcoming space that fosters secure attachment, healing, and vulnerability—creating a foundation that extends beyond our sessions and into their broader relationships and experiences.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Humans are complex beings composed of many interconnected parts. Early relationships often shape our understanding of which parts of ourselves are acceptable or necessary, while others are dismissed or suppressed. This process can lead individuals to lose touch with their authentic selves, becoming dominated by certain parts that, although once essential, may no longer serve the same purpose or provide the same support. Together, we work to identify these parts with compassion and curiosity, fostering a nonjudgmental relationship between them and the self. This process empowers clients to embrace their healthy, authentic selves, enhancing their quality of life and fostering more fulfilling relationships.

Person-centered (Rogerian)

As a therapist, my role is to cultivate a safe, nonjudgmental, and supportive space where clients feel encouraged to explore their thoughts and emotions openly. By embodying empathy, authenticity, and a non-directive approach, I create an environment that nurtures self-awareness and self-acceptance. This process promotes personal growth and helps clients achieve a deeper alignment with their authentic selves.

Relational

Because the partnership is the first and oftentimes the most intimate unit an individual can have, it has a lot of influence on the level of stress or support a person can feel. My work as a relationship therapist is to help both partners explore their roles and identify patterns, bring awareness to functional and dysfunctional behaviors, and learn how to foster healthier dynamics.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

Illinois

Accepts

Aetna
Aetna - Allied Benefits
Aetna - Luminare
Aetna - WebTPA
All Savers
AvMed
Blue Cross Blue Shield
Anthem
Cash - $150 per session
Golden Rule
Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare
UnitedHealthcare/Optum
Optum
OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions
Oscar
Oxford
Surest (formerly Bind)
United Medical Resources
UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance
UnitedHealthcare Shared Services
UnitedHealthcare StudentResources
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