New to Grow
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor in Louisiana. I provide empowering authentic straight forward reality therapy with compassionate, empathy, supportive listening, and understanding to individuals; couples; families, and friends; students; activist; care-takers; community servants; first responders; clergy; healers; church leaders; lay members; and managers; through tele-therapy/virtual and in-person sessions unique to them. My goal is to help you reach your goals and support and advocate for your best interest even when short-term discomfort persist. I believe in spaces where clients have the space to feel heard and validated without judgement. I was born in Chicago Raised in New Orleans Native and joined the Navy after one. year of college. I am currently a veteran married to a veteran with whom I have there adult children with. We know what it is to be battle buddies under the same roof. Education: MS., Human Sciences, Marriage & Family Studies, at Prairie View A&M University; MA., Human Services, Health and Wellness, Counseling from Liberty University; BS., Social Psychology from Park University I am a change agent and because I believe change promotes growth even when it's uncomfortable and looks scary. I also understand it is "grace" that supplies us the "opportunity" to change using our own wisdom, compassion, resiliency, and disciplines. Change is a daily human experience and we decide how we will embrace it. "Self-Forgiveness" and "Self-Acceptance" is necessity to love genuinely. I work with clients who want to explore past traumas, people, places, and situations they believe defied them. I help them navigate life in a realistic meaningful way.
In our first session together, here's what you can expect
At your first session we will worked together for approximately 1.5hrs to 2.0hrs. After explaining what brought you to therapy and your current challenges. I will ask open-ended questions about your goals, values, challenges, past successes, reasons and necessity for change and who and how it will benefit your future. I will asked open-ended questions so I can learn more about your childhood; family relationships; support systems; education; legal and criminal history. We will review assessments; symptoms; and discuss your desires, I will summarize your information and assist in creating objectives for each goal. I will provide you supportive and empathetic listening and discuss therapeutic modalities unique for you. There are many modalities but to name a few: CBT; EFT; EMDR; DBT/Emotional Intelligence; Motivational Interviewing; Attachment Base Therapy; Mindfulness; Somatic Therapy; and Solutions Focused Brief Therapy (SBFT) techniques to help you cope, build resilience, and reach your goals so that you can live a successful positive proactive healthy lifestyle for long-term wellness. You will leave with follow-up appointments and tasks to accomplish your objectives to reach your goals.
The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions
My greatest strengths are: meeting people where they are; helping clients how to reflect and challenge negative and intrusive thoughts that cause undo stress and fear; teaching reflective listening techniques to help clients process their feelings, emotions, behavior, and the facts to help them communicate effetely and place boundaries as needed; and lastly, sharing resources and networking to connect clients with community and access to support
The clients I'm best positioned to serve
My ideal client are: -Individuals -Couples: engaged/pre-marital counseling; marriage therapy; and long term vested partnerships) -Family Group: biological, blended, and/or multi-generation families or welcomed) -Domestic Violence (married/couples and family members) -Adoption -immigration issues -EAP is the "Employee Assistance Program" offered to employees -Workers Compensation for client's who experience job related trauma, adjustments issues and stressors. "I'm best positioned to serve individuals who are proactive about learning, willing to challenge negative and intrusive thoughts that are false but feel true." "My ideal client would one who want to break generational curses or face their abuser." "I'm best positioned for clients who are underserved, marginalized, and lack healthy support systems and/or consistent medical care because they may not know how to keep up with the times." "I'm best positioned for clients who struggle with self-sabotage." "I am best positioned for clients in recovery from addiction, people, places, and things." "My ideal client is one who experienced moral or medical injuries." "I'm positioned for clients who will benefit from short-term focused therapy to help them learn how to get over hurdles and bumps in the road on the job, in our home lives, personal lives, and unexpected experiences o include griefs and different types of loss." "An ideal client would be military and veteran individuals, couples, and families." "My ideal client would be someone who would like to build empathy by way of exposure therapy." "I'm best positioned to serve Christians who have been challenge by church hurt and/or religious abuse." "I'm best positioned for a senior citizen who is unsure if they want to move into assistant living or a modern day nursing" home. "An ideal client would be the professional or paraprofessional client who is in denial that they deserve a break!" "I'm best positioned for love after infidelity." "I'm best positioned for clients who betray others and/or lie knowingly but unable to say it out loud to stop it." "An ideal client would be a client who is remorseful and ashamed of past decisions." "I'm best positioned for the client who wants to have compassion after pain."
Eclectic
Eclectic (or integrative) therapy means I select specific tools and methods from different modalities based on a person’s goals, history, and current symptoms. Rather than forcing the client to fit one model, the approach is shaped around the client’s needs. It is still grounded in research-supported methods; what makes it “eclectic” is the thoughtful blending and sequencing of those methods for each person, not a random mix-and-match. From an eclectic approach, I may pull from: • Motivational Interviewing (MI) to strengthen readiness and motivation for change. • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. • Emotional intelligence work to build awareness of feelings, triggers, and impacts on others. • Mindfulness to increase present-moment awareness and reduce reactivity. Experiential and behavioral techniques are also common, such as role-play, use "Empty Chair" technique, exposure therapy, relaxation training/guided imagery, and behavioral activation techniques to balance mood, reducing avoidance using a mix of body-based calming, emotion skills, and small, consistent action steps. Each technique added can be adjusted over time depending on what is working.
Mind-body approach
The mind–body approach is a holistic, evidence-informed way of caring for your whole body/life: emotional, financial, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being all at once. It uses practical tools to calm the nervous system and gently retrain how the brain and body respond to stress, trauma, and chronic pain. Mind–body approach can integrate several well-studied methods, including: • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to shift unhelpful thought patterns and behavioral habits that keep the nervous system in threat mode. • Deep breathing, meditation, mindfulness, guided imagery, and progressive muscle relaxation to settle the body’s stress response and increase present-moment awareness. • Yoga and other gentle movement or stretching to release muscular tension, improve body awareness, and support regulation of the autonomic nervous system. Biofeedback can also be included, helping individuals see real-time data (such as heart rate or muscle tension) so they can learn how specific practices physically shift their stress response. Over time, this builds confidence that the body can move from high alert into a calmer, more balanced state. Effects on stress, anxiety, and chronic pain These practices are used to lower stress and anxiety, improve sleep and awareness, and help retrain how the brain processes and responds to chronic pain. Programs such as mindfulness-based stress reduction show improvements in mood, pain interference, and overall functioning across many conditions. By repeatedly activating the body’s “rest and digest” systems, the mind–body approach can reduce feelings of overwhelm and support healing from trauma, especially when paired with trauma-informed therapy. Over time, this can help lessen symptoms of depression and protect against burnout by giving the nervous system more frequent experiences of safety and ease.
Compassion Focused
Compassion-Focused Therapy is designed for people who experience high shame, self-criticism, or difficulty feeling worthy of kindness. It helps a person understand how their brain and nervous system respond to threat, and then intentionally activate a “soothing” system through practices of compassion, warmth, and safety. Compassion Focused Therapy invites both the “inner” parts of self (thoughts, feelings, memories, body sensations) and the “outer” self (behavior, boundaries, choices) into a space where they can be met with understanding rather than judgment. The work is not about excusing harm but about meeting human imperfection with honesty, accountability, and kindness rather than contempt.
Interpersonal
Interpersonal Therapy in therapy focus on improving a person’s current relationships and social functioning so that emotional symptoms decrease and a stronger support system can grow. They are especially helpful when distress is closely tied to conflicts, losses, or a painful lack of connection with others.
Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
DBT was originally developed for individuals that struggle with emotional regulation, suicidal, borderline personality disorder and has strong evidence for reducing self-harm, suicide attempts, anger, and psychiatric hospitalization. Research also supports its use, or shows promising results, for people with substance use disorders, PTSD, binge-eating and other eating disorders, treatment-resistant depression, and aspects of bipolar disorder. DBT directly targets emotion dysregulation and impulsive coping, it can be helpful for problems rooted in intense fear, jealousy, “all-or-nothing” thinking, chronic shame, trauma responses, and relationship instability. Many programs also adapt DBT skills for PTSD, anxiety, and survivors of domestic violence to reduce crisis behaviors and build a “life worth living.”