50+ therapists in Virginia matching your needs

I am a licensed professional counselor with over 25 years of experience in the areas of coaching, training, leadership, and mentoring industries. I love to meet the client where they are and allow them to help me follow them and where they desire to go. I counsel and offer the freedom for clients to grow in their own ways and become themselves in the process on a deeper scale.

My name is Joseph Shelton I am an LGBTQ identifying professional counselor who has extensive 12 years of experience. Over the last 12 years I have worked with individuals with addiction and various mental health disorders with a specialized focus on individuals with major depression anxiety and addiction. I have been in recovery my self for the last 10 going on 11 years since Nov 1 2013. I have extensive experience with my own recovery and LGBTQ issues and know what it means to recovery and effectively manage addiction and depression issues.

Hi! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Virginia. I have been in the mental health field since 2013. I enjoy working with individuals (ages 16-99 years old), couples, and families. I utilized an eclectic blend of treatment methods that best suits the client. I assist clients in gaining clarity on their goals and living the life they imagined.

Hello! My name is Faheda Rasool and I am a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW). I live in the sunny state of Florida and hold licenses to practice in Florida, North Carolina, Virginia, Michigan, Wyoming, and Hawaii. I practice virtually for my clients' convenience. My therapeutic style is warm, curious, and empathic. I mostly utilize cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) in my practice, though I also incorporate aspects of ACT, DBT, solution focused, and strength based perspectives in my approach. Throughout our time together, we will identify some primary challenges and create goals for our treatment plan. As sessions progress, these goals will be checked in on to assess for progress. Therapy is a great space to explore negative thoughts, feelings, and emotions, as well as challenges that may be sudden, or lingering for a while. This is a great space to gain new insight and perspective while learning more about yourself as you continue your own growth journey. As always, please remember that therapy is a judgment free zone. I am here for you!

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). My primary specialty is providing both individual and couples counseling to members of the LGBTQ+ population. I offer sexuality and gender-affirming care, sex therapy, and polyamory counseling. I also specialize in working with clients of all ages who suffer from complex trauma and PTSD. In addition, I have expertise in working with children and adults with brain-based differences such as ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD), Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome (NAS), and other conditions of neurodiversity. I provide education and support to caregivers raising children with these challenges, as well as empowering individuals who live with these disorders to reach their full potential.

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Virginia with 20 years of professional work experience. I received my Master's from Virginia State University. I have experience helping clients with trauma and abuse, oppositional and conduct-disordered behaviors, crisis management, parenting issues, anger management, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. I am certified in evidence-based programs: Multisystemic Therapy, an intensive family and community-based treatment for juvenile offenders with possible substance use issues and their families, Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Incredible Year as a Parent Training Facilitator. I believe in treating everyone with dignity, respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. I feel taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage, and I am proud of you for getting started!

Sunday is an authentic, humorous, compassionate, and highly skilled licensed professional counselor with a specialization in Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, ADHD, Addiction, Anger Management, Self-Esteem issues, Marital Conflict, Trauma, and PTSD. Sunday has over 3years experience in working with the adult population and employs a client-centered approach to establish a genuine connection with my clients. Sunday acknowledges the clients' uniqueness and adopts a non-judgmental stance to create a safe environment that allows clients to address distressing issues. He explains the diagnoses and collaborates to develop personalized treatment plans to meet clients’ needs. Sunday is passionate about spending time with family and traveling, and he has done quite a bit of it both within and outside the country.

I am an LPC and an LSATP. I graduated with a MA from Liberty University in Addiction Counseling and have been involved with counseling for 6 years. I can provide a healthy support system for individuals who need to explore self-worth and lack healthy coping strategies to move forward due to their lack of self-confidence. I can help you become the best version of yourself.

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, a National Certified Counselor & Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist. I implement a biopsychosocial model of care and hold space to explore the value of spirituality, should this to be foundational value to you. I have 15 years of experience providing skilled and compassionate care to children, adolescents & adults in clinical counseling; inpatient & outpatient psychiatric crisis assessment; remote Telehealth; K-12 & higher education settings. I have lived in Asia & Europe and enthusiastically welcome cultural diversity in the therapeutic process.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Virginia with experience in the mental health field, working with adults and teens challenged by depression, anxiety, trauma, interpersonal dynamics, and life transitions. I specialize in Person-Centered Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy. I champion adopting a "Knightly" approach to treatment, empowering individuals to manage the waves of life.

Hello! I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Virginia and have been providing therapy support since 2014. I help people recognize their strengths to improve their mental wellbeing and find solutions to life’s challenges. I also work with adults with a history of childhood trauma or have had traumatic experiences-to find a way towards peace and resilience for the future.

I curently live in NC, I worked as a School Social Worker for over 10 years. I received my Master from University of New England. I'm an African American psychotherapist, wife, and mother of two. Overcoming early motherhood at 16 taught me resilience and balance. I specialize in TFCBT and addressing everyday challenges women face, providing therapy to individuals of all ages and race. I enjoy

Hello, I'm Jose L. Diaz, a Licensed Counselor in Virginia with 16 years of experience, I have had the privilege to to meet a variety of people in some of the most challenging times of their lives. Being able to be an intimate part of their lives, and connecting with their challenges, pain and suffering has allowed me to understand individuals beyond my clinical abilities. I have always remembered the human component that we all possess and the resiliency possessed, is what we use to leverage the recovery and healing towards your well-being. I sincerely appreciate and respect being allowed into your vulnerability.

I challenge you while celebrating the changes you are making in your life. I help you to look at your concerns from a different perspective. I can help you identify your roadblocks as you move in the direction to become the person you want to be. I am not the typical therapist in that I do not use a cookie cutter approach to treatment. I like to work with my clients in a way that empowers them while challenging their thinking patterns to change the behaviors that are no longer serving them. With over 30 years of experience, I have developed an expertise in substance abuse, depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, borderline personality disorders and high functioning autism spectrum disorder. I utilize action methods with traditional therapy techniques to help you explore and break through the thought processes and behaviors that are holding you back from being the person you want to be. Through a collaborative approach, I meet you where you are at and assist your growth.

Hello. I'm a bilingual (English and Spanish) Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Virginia. I received my Master's from Walden University and have practiced for over eight years. My ultimate goal is to help individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, and other concerns return to the same level of functioning before their challenges started and to achieve their day-to-day responsibilities once again.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I received my masters from the University of Central Florida and have been practicing for over 14 years. I am licensed in Florida, Maine, Virginia, Arizona and Colorado. I resides in Florida. I help adults cope with various challenges impacting their lives. I help clients recognize their own strengths to make the changes they need.

I enjoy working with people to help them build a strong sense of self, encourage their confidence in relationships, and help foster a sense of calm and security in their everyday life. I enjoy helping parents navigate the many challenges that come our way. I believe people seek therapy for many reasons: adjustment to a new city or life situation, feeling overwhelmed or stuck, or problems with relationships. Counseling is a process that most of us could benefit from time to time at different stages in life, as it brings an outsider's perspective to events, we are faced with in day-to-day life in a nonjudgmental way.

Hello! My name is Dr. Tomlin, and I am a licensed and nationally certified professional counselor and traumatologist. I specialize in various modalities, including strength-based coaching, existentialism, multicultural awareness, and cognitive behavioral therapy. I am passionate about helping others achieve social, emotional, and behavioral improvements and providing them with the fundamental tools to overcome life struggles so they can prosper. Life is full of obstacles and difficult circumstances, which can feel overwhelming and all-consuming. Navigating these unique, daily challenges can be isolating, leaving you second-guessing everything and spiraling with sadness, frustration, and exhaustion.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW - VA) (LICSW – D.C.) with over 22 years of experience working with adolescents, adults, and older adults in both inpatient and outpatient medical and community settings. I received my Undergraduate Degree from the University of Pennsylvania, and my Master's Degree in Social Work from New York University (NYU). I consider myself to be an authentic, genuine, sincere individual who is deeply intuitive & empathic and who wants nothing more than for individuals who come for treatment to be relieved of their anguish, anxiety, acute depression, relationship conflicts & struggles, PTSD symptoms, and any other form of angst, suffering, or psychic pain that they may bear. My wish for clients is to be freed of the weight of their burdens & baggage.

I'm a licensed professional counselor in the state of Virginia and have experience in substance use, mental health challenges, and many other various issues. I'm truly passionate about helping people live their best lives. Let's face it, life is hard. But you don't have to do it alone. My goal is to offer hope and partnership as you navigate the challenges you're facing.

Welcome to outpatient therapy. My name is Dr. Krystal Symeonides, Ph.D. and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Substance Abuse Treatment Practitioner working in Virginia. I have been practicing in the mental health field for 29 years and I enjoy helping clients understand oneself and others, while providing genuine support to assist in growth and change. Therapy is food for the soul.

Warm Greetings! I have 30+ years of experience in the counseling field. I earned my Masters degree through Longwood University. I have specialized in working with children, tweens, teens, and young adults. Adult clients ranging up to seniors can explore in an accepting space as I journey alongside them. I currently work extensively with diverse families and adults with unique backgrounds as well. I believe in creating a safe space for all individuals to be heard and validated. I value building trust and openness with people to support them as they unravel the twists and turns that life presents us all. When I listen attentively in sessions, the person, couple, or family are the most important people in the room as we seek to shed light on the areas we can discover together. I see clients both virtually and in my office. *In-office sessions require prior approval by contacting me directly.

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). I received a Master of Science in Counseling from Capella University and a Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Virginia Commonwealth University. Treatment modalities in which I have experience include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). It has been my observation that since 2020, there has been a growing need for accessibility to services and telehealth platforms help o provide services for client's who might otherwise not get the support that they need.

Hi, I'm Barbara! I'm a warm-hearted and compassionate soul. I've been in the mental health field for over 20 years. Helping you find real, solid, meaningful and/or tangible solutions to issues and problems is my commitment to you. You can start a new journey towards health and wellness today! Through the process of changing your perspective, letting go of old burdens, guarding against unhealthy habits, adopting a new credo, and re-inventing yourself, you too can learn to enjoy life again. The simplest things often make the difference. All it takes is a little bit of courage on your part. I'm licensed in the State of Virginia and have worked with children, adults, and folks from all different walks of life over the course of my career. I've spent much of it helping others who were in the middle of a major life crisis, and I can help you, too!

I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in North Carolina and Virginia with over 25 years of experience working with Children and Adults. I am also a licensed Chaplain and Ordained Pastor providing spiritual counseling for over 25 years. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, OCD, and ADHD, PTSD and trauma. I also assisted many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse. My therapy style is warm and interactive. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, and I don't believe in stigmatizing labels. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, person centered, trauma focused, solution focused therapy and spiritual counseling. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It takes courage to seek a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards change. If you are ready to take that step, I am here to support and empower you. I will meet you where you are and assist you with getting to where you want to be. I look forward to working with you!

Greetings! I'm Lisette Fundora a dually Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC and LMHC) based out of Virginia and providing tele-health services in Florida. I received my Masters in Counseling from Nova Southeastern University and have been practicing for 10 years. I have worked in half way houses, intensive outpatient (IOP), inpatient, outpatient (OP), detoxes, schools, and community centers. Having worked with children and adults alike, I enjoy helping others struggling with stress, depression, anxiety, mood disorders, and ADHD to help you reach the best version of yourself.

I am an Iraq War Veteran who, after serving pursued a passion for helping others by earning a Doctorate of Social Work. Now, as a Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in assisting individuals grappling with trauma, mental health issues, and substance misuse. My unique background allows me to connect deeply with my clients, offering them empathy, understanding, and practical strategies for healing and growth. I aim to make a significant, positive impact on their lives, guiding them towards recovery and resilience with compassion and expertise.

My name is Nailah Cook and I have been practicing in the mental health and social work field for over 20 years. I came into the field with a love and commitment to helping individuals overcome the obstacles that have kept them stuck on their path to success. I specialize in mental health and life skills training seminars focused on teaching people the skills to overcome and cope with life challenges. I also specialize in group therapy and life skills groups because I strongly believe people learn from and are empowered by other's experiences. Clients who participate in my counseling courses which include individual sessions, group therapy, and educational groups/classes will have the tools necessary to enhance their lives while experiencing the evitable obstacles with a new sense of strength, tenacity, and resilience.

Hello, I am a licensed counselor in Florida and Virginia and over the last two decades, I have worked with individuals and couples with issues ranging from depression, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and addiction. As you courageously take this initial step to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life, I am here to offer support and help you feel empowered. I look forward to meeting you in our first session.

My name is Amber Hill, in 2003, I graduated from Old Dominion University with a Master of Science Degree in Education with a focus on School and Community Agency Counseling. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC), and a Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider (CSOTP). I possess over 20 years of experience counseling in diverse environments with clients with varied backgrounds and presenting issues including: adolescent and adult residential treatment, in-home counseling, mental health counseling in correctional facilities, and working with adults transitioning back into the community after serving a period of incarceration in the Bureau of Prisons. My interventions are primarily cognitive behavioral therapy, identifying how client’s thoughts and feelings are manifested in behaviors resulting in both positive and negative consequences. As perception makes an event real, we can often think in a manner which is counterintuitive to our values, principles, and beliefs. By identifying alternative ways of thinking resulting in changing our feelings, we can change our responses to the outside world to change our behaviors; thus, maximize positive outcomes.

I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida and Virginia. I currently provide individual, couple's therapy, and some diagnostic evaluations/assessments. I have been assisting with mental health support for many years across various clinical settings which has strengthened my clinical expertise. I am additionally training to become a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. It is my heart's desire to continue to help individuals find their personal journey to healing, growth and change.

Welcome! I'm Dr. Catherine Randall. Taking the first step to seek therapy can be hard. My goal is to support, listen, guide and advocate for you along your path to better mental health. I believe that while the path may be rocky, it can also be fun. I use humor and engaging activities to support a strong therapeutic relationship. My first goal is to create a safe and welcoming environment that allows clients to explore obstacles with concerns related to anxiety, depression, and other emotional/psychological challenges. I focus on building upon client strengths and helping develop effective interpersonal skills. I believe in a collaborative approach to problem-identification and problem-solving.

Greetings. Whatever led you to this site, this profile, in this moment. Welcome! Life can be complicated, overwhelming, and flat out hard. However, it CAN also be purposeful, rewarding, and fulfilling. Whatever you may have encountered on your journey this far and whatever your needs may be in this moment that led you here, I'm honored to provide a safe space for you to explore and work through it. Together, we can identify what's not working and what's needed to get you aligned with the life you envision. We'll use a whole self approach, addressing the needs of your mind, body and spirit. There's no time like the present.

Hello and welcome! I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is passionate about working with patients to find peace, healing, balance, and resolution in their lives. I work with adults who struggle with or experience symptoms of anxiety, depression, feeling overwhelmed, adjustment difficulties, relationship struggles, decision-making, and communication errors. I aim to create a safe space for my patients where they feel comfortable and welcome. It is always my goal to validate my patient's feelings and ensure they feel heard and understood.

Hi, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). I have a PhD in Psychology, a Master of Counseling and a bachelor’s degree in psychology. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and has been practicing since 2011. I have experience in working with adults and children with a history of inpatient mental health treatment, substance abuse, and crisis management. I have also worked alongside families and children in the juvenile justice system.

Joseph Melendez is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. He graduated from New York University with a Bachelor’s and Master of Social Work. Joseph is heavily involved with the LGBTQIA+ community and is a proud affirming provider. Additionally, he actively supports and works with individuals with disabilities, an area that is often overlooked. Joseph hopes to work with you soon!

Hello! As a seasoned and experienced Therapist, I take pride in assisting others become the best version of themselves, meeting people where they are, empowering others to to overcome struggles, finding resilience, and recognizing value and worth in prioritizing mental health. I do have an eclectic approach to therapy, meeting individuals where they are on their journey, but the primary theory that I draw experience and motivation with is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy as well as Trauma Informed Care. I am aware that each person seeking Counseling services is unique and I am open and ready to assist through individualized, person-centered services to ensure those seeking services are invested and involved in their treatment! I am here to listen and provide support for you. I have been privileged to provide services to adolescents and adults with a variety of presenting problems such as depression, anxiety, anger, trauma, phase of life changes, relationship issues, and many more.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, who specializes in mental health. I am qualified to work with all ages. I love working with the elderly, couples who suffer from PTSD, depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia. I have experience working with the severely mentally ill for more than thirty years. But my passion is the elderly. They do not get the attention they deserve, in my opinion. Considering that they have worked and contributed to society most of their lives.

I am a licensed clinical social worker and practice in the District of Columbia, Maryland and Virginia. I have been providing therapy for close to 15 years to help my client address mental health symptoms including depression, trauma, life transitions and anxiety. I believe people are inherently capable of managing their circumstances but sometimes require some assistance from a therapist to succeed.

Hi! My name is Camilla Cryer and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia and a National Certified Counselor. I obtained my Associate of Arts Degree in Liberal Arts from Bucks County Community College, a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology from the University of Virginia, and a Master of Arts Degree in Community Counseling from Regent University. Currently, I am working on my Doctorate Degree in Counseling and Psychological Studies with a concentration on Human Services. I am a versatile professional counselor with extensive experience in various settings, ranging from residential group homes for adults with Intellectual Disabilities to substance abuse treatment programs and homes for victims of domestic violence. Over the course of my career, I have provided counseling services to clients with major clinical diagnoses, children, teens, parents, couples, and families. My expertise includes offering support in group therapy and providing individual outpatient counseling. I am also currently serving clients in my local crisis facility, where I offer immediate support and counseling to individuals in distress. My commitment to community service projects reflects my belief in giving back to the community, further emphasizing my dedication to making a positive impact on people's lives. My diverse background equips me to address a wide range of mental health challenges and life situations, allowing me to create tailored counseling approaches for each individual I work with. My goal is to empower my clients, helping them navigate through their difficulties and fostering positive changes in their lives.

LaTonya Jones is a board certified Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Virginia. She has a BS in Criminal Justice from Old Dominion University and a MS in Counseling Studies from Capella University. She has over 25 years of experience in Mental Health. LaTonya’s area of interest is empowering Women and teenage Girls. She has worked with adults, teens, couples and families. LaTonya provides a range of therapeutic and psychotherapy services to include depression, anxiety, PTSD, stress, adjustment disorders, grief and loss, addiction, life transitions and anger management. LaTonya strives to empower her clients to ultimately arrive at a place of emotional and mental stability. LaTonya encourages her clients through use of autonomy to recognize their resilience and their ability to overcome all types of challenges. Through rapport building, LaTonya creates a safe and trusting environment that allows the client to “Trust the Process” and “Show themselves Grace”.

My counseling experience includes treating adolescents, adults, and couples. My practice is highly individualized to address common symptoms associated with anxiety, depression, and relationship issues. I treat my clients as unique individuals with their distinctive concerns impacting their lives. I greatly honor the trust I am given by them and will help them navigate difficult times and unexpected life changes. I believe the decision to start the journey toward healing and reconciliation demonstrates a great deal of courage and resolve. Together we can discern a path toward a more balanced and joyful life. Emotional/spiritual growth and symptom reduction are the primary focus of practice. I accomplish this by helping clients understand how their internal life is interacting with outside stressors causing discomfort and impeding growth. I also endeavor to help clients recognize destructive patterns in personal relationships that may be keeping them from further healing. In addition to private practice experience, I also have pastoral/spiritual counseling experience.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Virginia. I received my Masters from Radford University and have been practicing for 5 years. I help adults struggling with everyday life stressors, depression, anxiety, and many other mental health needs.

Hello! My name is Cassandra Simpson, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Virginia. I received my master's degree in professional counseling from Ottawa University and I have been practicing for close to 8 years. I help adults who are struggling with anxiety, depression, and trauma. I enjoy helping these individuals overcome their symptoms and return to a normal level of daily functioning.

Delores Morris is a Licensed Professional Counselor with multi-state licenses. To assist clients with becoming a better version of themselves, she brings new perspectives, various strategies, and helpful tools to navigate challenging situations. She facilitates creative processes that help liberate and empower clients to overcome their circumstances. She identifies their strengths and upskill mentalities to meet the current demands in the home, the community, and the workplace.

I’ve been a counselor for 25 years and have lots of life experience to add to our counseling experience. I enjoy using humor, and evidence-based treatment to help clients reach their goals. I am a licensed clinical social worker and have a PhD in counseling. I believe in client self-determination, and will work with you to achieve the goals that matter to you.

Hello. I am Dr. C. Thank you so much for being here! You are not here by accident and I do not take your presence for granted.​ I'm thrilled to meet you on this journey. Your decision to seek support is a powerful one, and I'm here to walk this path with you. I bring over a decade of experience working with people from all walks of life. In cities, diversity thrives, and I've had the privilege of connecting with individuals of various ages and backgrounds in both clinical and volunteer roles within the mental health field. I'm genuinely excited to work with you, to help you become a healthier, happier version of yourself. Starting this journey is a significant step, and I want to thank you for your openness and trust. I know that this process can be tough, but together, we can navigate it. I can't wait to connect with you soon and begin this important chapter!

I am Dr. Sally, and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Georgia and Virginia, a Clinical Supervisor, and a Professor in Counseling. My Ph.D. is in Counselor Education and Supervision with an additional specialty in trauma work. Prior to private practice, I worked as a community-based and addiction counselor. I am also meaningfully involved in mentoring and training mental health counselors.

Hey there! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker that practices Behaviorism. What that means is that we will work together to target behaviors that can help you improve your current mental state. I want to help you see quantifiable progress from our work together. A little about me: My name is Suzanne. I’m a person that loves the sun, being by water and dogs! In my free time I volunteer with a Great Dane rescue. I enjoy those huge, goofy, couch potato dogs. I’ve moved around a lot and went to school at Syracuse University and graduate school in Washington D.C. I have two decades of experience specializing in trauma, grief, relationship issues, anxiety, addiction and depression. I’ve been heavily involved in working with military, veterans and first responders. You are the subject matter expert in what you need and I will supply tools, support, information and backing. We will work together on making goals and action steps on how to reach your goals.

Hello, and thank you for taking the first step in your journey to a better you! I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Licensed Substance Abuse Counselor. My career spans twenty years of working with Adults, Kiddos and Families through the multiple stressors life can present. I specialize in Depression, Anxiety, Substance Abuse, ADHD, Childrens Behavioral Issues, Illness Management and Trauma. I have an extensive history of working with Helping Professionals. I will bring to you my experience in current therapeutic models, and evidence-based modalities to help you find ways to cope at this time in your life.