Scott Earley, LMHC - Therapist at Grow Therapy

Scott Earley

Scott Earley

(he/him)

LMHC
15 years of experience
Virtual

About Me 🌟 15 Years of Mental Health Therapy Experience: With over 15 years of dedicated practice, I’ve had the privilege of supporting individuals on their transformative journeys. My wealth of experience equips me to guide you toward positive change. 🌟 Licensed Mental Health Therapist in Florida: As a licensed therapist in the state of Florida, I am committed to providing evidence-based care. I specialize in working with students from Kindergarten to Eighth grade, helping them navigate life’s challenges. 🌟 Empathy Through Shared Experience: For over two decades, I’ve been a permanent wheelchair user due to a T-12/L=1 complete spinal cord injury. This personal journey has given me profound insights into resilience, adaptability, and the human spirit. Specializations 🌟 Adolescents: I’ve worked extensively with adolescents , addressing a wide range of concerns. Whether it’s depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting challenges, career transitions, OCD, or ADHD, I tailor my approach to meet your unique needs. 🌟 Compassion for Trauma Survivors: I’ve helped many individuals who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse. My warm and interactive therapy style creates a safe space for healing and growth. My Approach 🌟 Holistic and Respectful: I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. Stigmatizing labels have no place in our therapeutic journey. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic, and rational-emotive therapies. Together, we’ll explore what resonates best for you. Tailored Treatment Plans: Your journey is unique, and so is our dialogue. I’ll customize our treatment plan to address your specific needs, empowering you to take courageous steps toward a more fulfilling life. Taking that first step toward change requires courage. If you’re ready to embark on this journey, I’m here to support and empower you. Together, we’ll create a brighter path forward—one that celebrates your successes not only in your career but also in your social circles and emotional well-being.

What can clients expect to take away from sessions with you?

A Compassionate Journey: A 45-Minute Therapy Session Setting the Scene Imagine stepping into a cozy, sunlit room—a safe haven where your thoughts and feelings are welcome. The clock ticks softly, marking the beginning of our 45-minute journey together. I’m here, fully present, ready to listen. You’re not alone; we’re in this together. Welcoming Warmth As you settle into the plush armchair, I offer a genuine smile. “Welcome,” I say. “How has your week been?” Your response—whether a torrent of emotions or a hesitant whisper—sets the tone. We’re not just discussing days; we’re unraveling the threads of your life. The Art of Listening I lean forward, attentive. Your words matter. They’re the brushstrokes on the canvas of your soul. You share your joys—the sunflower blooming in your garden—and your sorrows—the storm that rattled your heart. I nod, validating each emotion. “Tell me more,” I encourage. And you do. Trauma’s Echoes Perhaps you carry trauma—the jagged edges of memories. Maybe it’s a car crash, a loss, or a betrayal. I tread carefully, like a guide through a dark forest. We explore the roots of pain—the gnarled tree that casts shadows. You’re not alone; I’ve walked this path with others. We find footholds—coping strategies, resilience—that lead toward healing. The Adolescent Heart If you’re a teenager, your heart beats with intensity. Social media swirls around you—a tempest of likes, filters, and comparisons. We dissect it gently. The Instagram highlight reel versus the quiet ache. The pressure to fit in, to be seen. I share stories of other teens—their courage, their vulnerability. You nod; you’re not alone. Kindergarten Whispers And if you’re younger—the age of crayon-scribbled dreams—I listen to your whispers. The monsters under the bed, the scraped knees, the wonder of stars. We play games—coloring feelings, naming them. “Sadness wears a blue cloak,” you say. We laugh. You’re not alone; your feelings matter. From Inpatient to Juvenile Halls I’ve sat in sterile hospital rooms, held hands with those battling demons. Inpatient facilities—a cocoon for fragile souls. And juvenile halls—the echo of mistakes. I’ve listened to youth—angry, scared, resilient. We’ve built bridges—tools to cross from despair to hope. Coping skills—like compasses—pointing toward a brighter path. Everyday Stressors, Everyday Triumphs We discuss stress—the backpack you carry. Homework, friendships, expectations. We unpack it, one zipper at a time. Breathing exercises,

Explain to clients what areas you feel are your biggest strengths.

Strengths in My Mental Health Therapy Sessions: A Compassionate Journey As I sit across from my clients, the room transforms—a cocoon of vulnerability, where stories unfurl like fragile wings. Here, in this sacred space, my strengths come alive—the tools I’ve honed over 15 years of guiding hearts through storms. Let me share them with you: 1. Empathetic Resonance My heartstrings are finely tuned—an orchestra of compassion. When they speak, I don’t merely listen; I feel. Their pain echoes within me, and in that resonance, healing begins. I nod, not as an expert but as a fellow traveler. Together, we bridge gaps, saying, “I see you; I hear you.” 2. The Art of Silence In the quiet moments, magic unfolds. Silence isn’t empty; it’s pregnant with possibility. I allow space for thoughts to unfurl, like fragile buds seeking sunlight. My stillness invites revelations—the buried memories, the unspoken fears. And when they spill forth, I cradle them gently, like fragile glass ornaments. 3. Curiosity as Compass I’m a detective of the soul. Curiosity guides my questions—the compass needle pointing toward hidden springs. “Tell me more,” I say. And they do. We explore inner landscapes—the tangled forests of childhood, the cliffs of trauma. Each revelation is a breadcrumb leading home. 4. The Alchemist’s Words My words aren’t mere syllables; they’re alchemical spells. “You’re not broken; you’re becoming.” “Fear is a compass; let’s navigate.” “Your scars? They’re constellations.” I transmute pain into purpose, self-doubt into self-discovery. My phrases linger—a soothing balm on raw wounds. 5. Trauma’s Whisperer Trauma tiptoes through my sessions—the ghost in the room. But I’m no stranger. I’ve danced with it—the waltz of healing. I know trauma’s language—the stammered words, the clenched fists. I offer safety, grounding techniques, and EMDR’s rhythmic cadence. Together, we rewrite their stories. 6. Playfulness as Portal I’m not all seriousness; I’m a whimsical guide. Playdough, puppets, sand trays—they’re my secret doors. Children enter, eyes wide. Adolescents, too—they build sandcastles of metaphor. We laugh together, and in that laughter, defenses crumble. Healing sneaks in, disguised as play. 7. The Art of Holding Space My therapy room isn’t four walls; it’s a cathedral. I hold space—the sacred container for tears, rage, and fragile hopes. I’m the guardian of vulnerability. When they unravel, I don’t flinch. I whisper, “You’re safe here.” And they believe me. 8.

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My treatment methods

Trauma-Focused CBT

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): TF-CBT is particularly effective in helping individuals with PTSD symptoms, such as intrusive thoughts, nightmares, hypervigilance, and emotional numbness. Depression: Individuals who have experienced trauma often struggle with depression. TF-CBT helps modify distorted thinking patterns and negative reactions associated with depression2. Anxiety: Whether it’s generalized anxiety or specific anxiety related to traumatic experiences, TF-CBT provides tools to manage anxiety symptoms. Guilt and Shame: Trauma survivors often carry feelings of guilt and shame. TF-CBT helps address these emotions and promotes healing2. Behavioral Outbursts: TF-CBT targets behavioral challenges resulting from trauma, helping individuals manage anger, impulsivity, and acting out. Feelings of Powerlessness: Trauma can leave individuals feeling powerless. TF-CBT empowers them to regain a sense of control and agency2. Traumatic Loss: Whether due to the death of a loved one or another form of loss, TF-CBT assists in processing grief and loss3. Sexual Abuse: While TF-CBT was originally developed for children who experienced sexual abuse, it has expanded to address various forms of severe trauma, including sexual abuse1. Physical Abuse: Individuals who have suffered physical abuse can benefit from TF-CBT to manage trauma-related symptoms1. Neglect: TF-CBT can be effective for those who have experienced neglect, helping them process feelings of abandonment and develop healthier coping strategies3. Domestic Violence: Survivors of domestic violence find support in TF-CBT to address trauma-related issues and build resilience3. Community Violence: Exposure to community violence—such as witnessing crime or violence in the neighborhood—can lead to trauma symptoms. TF-CBT helps individuals cope with these experiences3. Accidents and Natural Disasters: Whether it’s a car accident or a natural disaster, TF-CBT assists in managing trauma reactions related to such events3. Remember, seeking help after trauma is a courageous step, and TF-CBT provides a structured and evidence-based approach to healing. If you or someone you know is dealing with trauma, consider reaching out to a qualified therapist who specializes in this approach. 🌟

Couples Counseling

Types of Couples Therapy I have used in the past: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): This approach focuses on improving attachment and bonding between partners. Therapists help identify and change patterns that lead to disconnection. Gottman Method: Addressing conflict areas, this method equips partners with problem-solving skills. It emphasizes friendship quality and intimacy. Strength-Based Approaches: Some therapists, like Ellen Wachtel, emphasize positive aspects of the relationship and self-reflection rather than blame. Psychodynamic Couple’s Therapy: Exploring underlying hopes and fears, this approach helps partners understand each other better. Behavioral Therapy (BCT): Reinforces positive behaviors that promote stability and satisfaction while discouraging negativity. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBCT): Identifies and changes negative thought patterns influencing behavior2. Integrated Techniques: Couples therapists often blend strategies from different therapeutic approaches based on individual needs. These may include communication exercises, conflict resolution techniques, and enhancing emotional intimacy2. Remember, couples therapy isn’t about assigning blame—it’s about creating a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. If you’re considering couples counseling, take that courageous step—it’s an investment in your shared well-being! 🌟

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT aims to improve distressed couple relationships by rekindling the emotional and physical bond that may have been strained due to disappointment or alienation. The central idea is: “Hold me tight.” It emphasizes the importance of emotional security and attachment in promoting positive change within dysfunctional relationships. Developed by Dr. Sue Johnson and Dr. Leslie Greenberg, EFT draws on attachment theory and recognizes that love itself can be transformative1. How It Works: EFT operates on the belief that emotions are not mere accessories to human experience; they are fundamental organizing principles of our lives. When couples express longing and sadness over their emotional disconnection, it becomes a powerful tool for eliciting lost contact and responsiveness from their partner. Restoration of emotional ties allows partners to be open and responsive to each other, creating a foundation for mutual support and satisfaction. EFT therapists guide couples to explore the unmet need for closeness underlying their anger or alienation. Sharing vulnerability opens the door to new dialogue and moments of tenderness1. When Is It Used?: EFT is especially useful when couples arrive in counseling feeling emotionally distressed or believing their relationship is irreparable. Common signs include intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. These strong negative emotions often mask deeper feelings of fear, helplessness, and unlovability resulting from ruptured bonds. EFT is also beneficial for individuals who struggle to express emotions or fear vulnerability, as well as those with intense emotional reactivity due to abandonment fears1. Beyond Couples: While primarily used for couples, EFT principles can also be applied in family therapy to improve emotional attachment among family members. The focus remains on understanding and improving emotional connections with oneself and others2. Remember, seeking help through EFT is a courageous step—one that can lead to healing, growth, and stronger relationships. If you have any further questions or need additional information, feel free to ask! 🌟

Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP)

AEDP is a type of therapy that helps people feel better, more whole, and less anxious. It’s like emotional first aid—it focuses on managing and using emotions effectively. How Does It Work? Imagine you have emotional knots or wounds. AEDP gently untangles those knots. It’s about feeling less alone and more connected—to yourself and others. You create a safe space with the therapist to explore your feelings. Why “Accelerated”? AEDP aims for faster healing. It’s like turbocharging emotional growth. By facing emotions directly, you move through them more quickly. Key Points: Undoing Aloneness: You’re not alone in this process; the therapist is your partner. Identifying Emotions: AEDP helps you recognize and experience your feelings. Secure Base: Think of the therapist as your emotional safety net. Remember, AEDP is all about healing, connection, and emotional growth. It’s like giving your heart a warm hug!

Acceptance and commitment (ACT)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a powerful approach that combines mindfulness, behavioral change techniques, and a focus on values. When conducting an ACT session with a client, here are the key steps: Review the Previous Week: Begin by discussing the client’s experiences over the past week. Explore both positive and challenging moments. Identify behaviors that aligned with their values—these are the ones you’ll want to reinforce and celebrate. Also, discuss any actions that were not in alignment with their values. Reward Consistent Behaviors: For behaviors consistent with their values, acknowledge and reward the client. Positive reinforcement encourages them to continue moving in the right direction. It could be as simple as verbal praise or finding a small way to celebrate their efforts. Explore Barriers: For behaviors that weren’t in alignment with their values, delve deeper. Understand the barriers or obstacles that led to those actions. Was it fear, self-doubt, or external pressures? Identifying these barriers is crucial for growth. Use the Six ACT Processes: ACT focuses on six core processes, often represented as the “hexaflex”: Mindfulness: Encourage present-moment awareness. Use mindfulness exercises to ground the client in the here and now. Cognitive Defusion: Help the client distance themselves from unhelpful thoughts. Explore exercises that challenge the power of thoughts (e.g., “leaves on a stream” metaphor). Acceptance: Teach the client to accept their internal experiences (thoughts, emotions, sensations) without judgment. This doesn’t mean liking or agreeing with them—it’s about making room for them. Self-as-Context: Shift the client’s perspective from being entangled with their thoughts to observing them. They are not their thoughts; they have thoughts. Values Clarification: Explore what truly matters to the client. What values do they want to live by? Connect their actions to these values. Committed Action: Encourage the client to take purposeful steps toward their values. What actions can they commit to, even in the face of discomfort? Experiential Exercises: ACT sessions are dynamic and experiential. Use exercises that foster mindfulness and illustrate ACT processes. Role-plays, metaphors, and experiential activities help clients engage with these concepts. Non-Judgmental Stance: As the therapist, maintain a compassionate, non-judgmental stance. Encourage clients to practice new ways of relating to their internal experiences. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection.