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Sandy Enders

Sandy Enders

(she/her)

LPC
10 years of experience
Empowering
Open-minded
Holistic
Virtual

I have a fairly diverse background in work and education including 20 years in the business arena in retail and financial services. In 2000 I went back to grad school again and moved into higher education teaching and the mental health field. I have worked specifically in substance use disorder in both residential and out patient facilities and I am knowledgable about most substances both licit and illicit that often get abused. My MA in psychology was focused on Binge Eating Disorder which I struggled with in childhood and began self-medicating with cannabis by the time I was 14 years old. I found pills in my late teens and crystal meth in my early 20's which brought me to my knees by my mid 20's. I met my first psychotherapist at 25 and she turned my life around, that was when I made up my mind what my life goal would be.

What can clients expect to take away from sessions with you?

At the first session I will listen to what you want to accomplish, what particular problems or goals you have, or if you are just trying to reach a higher ground. Also, a history about your past will be done and then we can decide if we want to move further and develop a treatment plan.

Explain to clients what areas you feel are your biggest strengths.

I think I have a past that creates my ability to be a good therapist. I came from a place of dysfunction where many clients may be, I survived the family abuse, the eating disorder in childhood, being the pothead in high school, the crystle meth head in my 20's. I know what it's like to go to sleep clutching a bottle of pills thinking about taking them but knowing how the family would bash me if I lived through it. The things that saved me were therapy, my faith, my mother's support, and my love of learning. I attended various colleges and universities and so I have a strong diverse educational background, secular and faith based. I am also 65 years old and have much wisdom to offer. I am very devout to my spirituality and consciousness and always striving to rise to a higher level.

Describe the client(s) you are best positioned to serve.

I feel I can do the best with clients who were raised in dysfunctional households as I was and who self medicated that feeling of not being wanted, or the chaos, abuse, or neglect early on. I know a great deal about scapegoating and gaslighting in the family and the damage that can come from it. I know what it's like to be told that I "shouldn't feel or think like that" or I'm "too sensitive or too deep". I'm an empath and found my calling to develop the gift further through the years. If you feel that you are "highly sensitive and/or spiritually inclined" you may like to work with me.

About Sandy Enders

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Address

23 Oregon Avenue, East Haven, CT, USA

Appointments

Virtual & in-person

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

I am well versed in cognitive-behavioral therapies especially for substance use disorder. If the client is younger and not so knowledgable I stay with basic cognitive-behavioral skills.

Existential

If my client is older and/or seasoned about their problem I move into existential issues, with the focus often on "meaning or purpose in life".

Faith based therapy

I was raised Catholic and never really left. However I have opened myself up to learn about all the world religions and over the past decade have concluded that God is consciousness itself. That does not mean that I have turned my back on Jesus Christ. I still most deeply follow the Christian philosophy, meditations, and will still attend Catholic masses. I view religion as a "man made social institution" and spirituality as "my relationship with God".

Jungian

In general I tend toward psychoanalytic, seeking the unconscious and facing the shadow in talk therapy. My favorite psycholgist is Carl Jung. I strongly believe in the collective consciousness/unconsciousness (Akashic Record) and will work with some of the metaphysical alternative methods such as energy, EMDR, tarot, hypnosis, as long as I feel the patient is prepared to do so.

Transpersonal

I especially enjoy working with specialty or challenging clients who have paranormal events, extra sensitivities and/or are trying to ascend to a higher dimension of reality or want to discuss a psychedelic experience, or non-ordinary state of consciousness.