Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 21 ratings

Michael Kelley

LMFT, 20 years of experience

Frequently rebooked

Authentic
Open-minded
Warm

About me

Hi! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) for 20 years having worked in community mental health and school-based settings in Los Angeles, substance abuse counseling in Austin, and private practice in both CA and TX. Now, based again in CA, I work with adults to gain a healthy sense of self, improve emotional and functional well-being, and build healthy relationships.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session, we will briefly review intake paperwork, then dive into the challenges (and opportunities!) that brought you into counseling. Through the counseling process, as the therapist, I come to understand your life experience and can begin to assist you in addressing issues that will help heal and facilitate your growth so that you may move forward in creating and actualizing the life you want.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

Having worked successfully with hundreds of clients over the years, one of my greatest strengths as a provider is my ability to really be present and hold space for people as they express and work through their issues, actively listening, asking clarifying questions, deeply considering the depth of their experience and concern, finding meaning and purpose, and supporting them along the way as they move into resolution.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

As a relational therapist, I love working with adults--young, old, and in between--who are motivate to take a deeper look into their lives... how they got to where they are, what they want to do better, what they are ready to leave behind, and where they want to go! While I specialize in working with couples in private practice, the current structure of the health insurance payments system for mental health does not support me being able to work with couples who want to use their health insurance to pay for couples counseling at this time. You are welcome to contact me through my website for more information about working with me for couples counseling in private practice.

Specialties

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I identify as

Man

Serves ages

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) provides a basis to identify and work with thoughts that drive emotions and behaviors. Given our brain's natural 'negative bias' which is designed to identify threats and keep us safe. As a result, we often (consciously or unconsciously) have negative thoughts that directly impact our perceptions, interpretations, and responses/reactions to experiences. Bringing these thoughts into awareness, and examining their impact and role in our lives, can assist us in living with greater purpose and clearer intention.

Relational

Relational Therapy (RT) is based on the idea that mutually satisfying relationships with others are necessary for one's emotional well-being and takes into account the ways social and familial factors relate to the relationships in a person's life. RT aims to build an individual's sense of self and agency, as well as patience with the process and trust of others, learning about boundaries, mutuality, collaboration, cooperation, and healthy balance in relationships.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 21 ratings

2 ratings with written reviews

May 22, 2025

Very good at taking my monologues summarizing them and guiding me how to use it to either solve a current situation or think about setting up principles for the future

Verified client, age 45-54

Review shared after session 5 with Michael

February 20, 2025

Michael is very helpful in helping me get through my daily life obstacles. He is very understanding and really cares.

Verified client, age 55-64

Review shared after session 5 with Michael