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Licensed to practice in New York and accepts 36 insurances. Specializes in Anxiety, Depression, LGBTQ and 10 more.

Gary Pustel

(he/him)

LMHC, 4 years of experience
Warm
Solution oriented
Direct
VirtualAvailable

Hey there! If your negative thought loops or emotions have impacted your life in some way, I'm here to remind you that you're certainly not alone - you're human. I view therapy as a chance to improve the thinking patterns that cause you to feel anxious or depressed, and keep you down for longer than feels healthy. My aim is to help confront these problem areas and then construct goals that ultimately bring about healthy change!

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session together, we will explore any existing problem areas in your life. Together we will create a set of specific goals that will allow us to gradually work upon the most important areas of growth for you. The subject of therapy is YOU, one that should be approached with both curiosity and care, and one that I would certainly be privileged to take part in!

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I am a solution-focused therapist at heart and I also lean on cognitive-behavioral principles in my practice. The combination of these tools usually leads to a high level of engagement and receptiveness with my clients! I also aim to use a calm, conversational tone throughout sessions, which encourages a healthy space to exchange thoughts, ideas, and helpful solutions.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

Let's face it: We can all somehow relate to the endless, negative thought loops and behaviors that keep us down. I work with adults and adolescents struggling with this in their daily lives, as well as those with mood or anxiety-related symptoms/disorders, and those facing unique struggles within the LGBTQ+ community. I work through a transparent, empathic, and solution-focused lens and strive to engage my clients' minds towards healthy recentering and progress. I believe that consistently doing so in an authentic way will allow you to feel lighter and more at ease with yourself, your thoughts, your life.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQ

Other specialties

ADHD

Anger Management

Bipolar Disorder

Family Conflict

Life Transitions

Men's Issues

Mood Disorders

Peer Relationships

Self Esteem

Trauma and PTSD

I identify as

LGBTQ

Man

White

Serves ages

Adults (18 to 64)

Licensed in

New York

Accepts

Aetna

Aetna - ASR Health Benefits

Aetna - Allied Benefits

Aetna - Luminare

Aetna - Moda

Aetna - WebTPA

Aetna – HealthEZ

All Savers

Amerihealth Administrators

Arlo

AvMed

Blue Cross Blue Shield

Anthem

Independence Blue Cross

Independence Administrators

Cash - $175 per session

Centivo

Cigna

Cigna - HealthEZ

EAP:Cigna

EAP:Evernorth

EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Evernorth

Golden Rule

Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare

UnitedHealthcare/Optum

Optum

OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions

Oscar

Oxford

Surest (formerly Bind)

Tufts Health/Cigna

United Medical Resources

UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance

UnitedHealthcare Shared Services

UnitedHealthcare StudentResources

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

I use CBT techniques in my practice to explore the relationships between your thinking patterns, emotions, and behavior. Many of these techniques are largely used to deconstruct unhealthy thinking patterns that may be interfering in various areas of your life.

Dialectical Behavior (DBT)

DBT skills are often used in my practice when issues of emotion regulation or impulsive behaviors are front and center.

Motivational Interviewing

I have successfully used motivational interviewing techniques to evaluate degrees of motivation, ambivalence, or resistance to making healthy changes - this can be especially helpful for making tough life decisions!

Psychodynamic

I often integrate psychodynamic techniques to help identify unconscious motivations that lead to unhealthy thinking patterns, emotional states, and/or behaviors.

, 6 ratings

2 ratings with written reviews

June 5, 2026

Great listener, gave me good feedback and things to think about.

Verified client, age 25-34
Review shared after session 1 with Gary

May 19, 2026

Very kind, patient, and seemed like he really wants to help me

Verified client, age 25-34
Review shared after session 1 with Gary